posted on Jul, 16 2013 @ 10:31 AM
I'm married and this is what I was looking for. Just like men, women look for different things when they're ready to settle down vs. just dating and
1). Christian. First and foremost. It's horrible being in a relationship where someone teases you for your faith. Having someone who understands your
faith is important.
2). Highly intelligent. There is something very sexy about a man who carries himself well intellectually. My hubby doesn't have some Ivy League
education but dang it if he isn't the smartest man I've ever been with. The man seemingly knows everything!
3). Strong character and integrity. The type who would return a lost wallet filled with money or help someone with a flat tire. This is my favorite
thing about my husband. He has one of the strongest characters I've ever seen- always tries to do the right thing no matter what.
4). A true family man and good provider. See Kanye West's song.
One who would rather be at Six Flags with his wife and kids than a bar with his
buddies and one who is professionally motivated.
5). A good blend of affection and independence. This is important for single guys to understand. Just like you wouldn't want an unobtainable,
emotionally detached girl OR a Clinging Mimi who calls you 20 times a day. Everyone wants a little bit of a challenge and nobody wants a doormat.
In short, Christian, intelligent, one who walks in integrity, independent but loving, and a good family man and provider. Looks, sense of humor, dress
style, sexual prowess, political beliefs, hobbies, etc. are bonus/optional.