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Originally posted by Itisnowagain
Peace watching the sound and fury is sweet music. It is the universal song.
The one verse - universe.
You say peace is overrated but you spoke earlier about the 'stable I'.
A 'stable I' to me is peace (or okness) - what does 'stable' mean to you?
Originally posted by Bluesma
If total peace is what you crave, there is nothing wrong with that, and I do not suggest there is.
I simply state, that I do not wish to limit my experience only to that.
Yes, it is valuable to find and develop an "I", but no, I see no reason to cling to it. "Not I" is just as interesting.
edit on 21-7-2013 by Bluesma because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Bluesma
Yes, it is valuable to find and develop an "I", but no, I see no reason to cling to it. "Not I" is just as interesting.
Originally posted by Bluesma
You say peace is overrated but you spoke earlier about the 'stable I'.
A 'stable I' to me is peace (or okness) - what does 'stable' mean to you?
What I meant by it being overrated is that though a person can go through a phase of searching or desiring that experience, I do not think it is the "end all" of existence.
Originally posted by Bluesma
As I am reveling in my discovery of how to find stability in an "I", you seem to be reveling in the way out you found.
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
I do not think it is wise to develop an 'I'. What is it anyway?
When you say 'not I' do you mean someone else? Or do you mean having no identity?
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
I was wondering what you mean by 'stable I'?
What does 'stability' mean to you?
Originally posted by Bluesma
Whether you consider it wise or not, you obviously have this as you just used the word "I" and expressed having an opinion or preference, as well as perception of a "you" (a separate entity).
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
I do not think it is wise to develop an 'I'.
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
I is one. I expressed that it does not need developing.
I do not think it is wise to develop an 'I'.
The separate self, however, is divided and feels the need to be more.
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
I is one. I expressed that it does not need developing.
I do not think it is wise to develop an 'I'.
Well, it has developed. I guess you mean you did not make any conscious choices in it's development- you let others do that? (parents, other people in your environment as a child?)
Perhaps I cannot make comment on that. I was largely neglected and without much acknowledgment from my environment and others when little- I needed to make conscious choices of what I was and was not, to have a sense of identity. From listening to the experiences of others who had lots of interaction with others as a child, it seems they often desire to exit or exchange that identity that was given them, for one they form themself anyway (even with the difficulty that poses...).
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
I didn't fit in as a child in the family unit and it made me try to fit with people to connect to people because I had a very isolating childhood. The trying to fit in with others is what develops - fitting into an toxic family makes one have to play the game - one is shaped to fit. That shape does not fit anywhere else but in that family. That family is not what surrounds me now.
That shape that formed was not my true shape. A shape will not fit. Each individual has a certain shape or form that they hold together - it makes then not fit everywhere they go.
Being shapeless allows one to flow with all that is, any expression can happen - there is nothing fixed..
Have you ever seen the film 'The Golden Compass'? It just came to mind
Originally posted by Bluesma
"I would rather be hated for what i am, than loved for what I am not!"