posted on Jul, 16 2013 @ 03:04 AM
reply to post by dave_welch
It's not my job to place fault.
I don't care if people cheat on their wives and husbands, and I don't care the reason, because the bottom line is it's going to happen because of
simple human nature. And I'm not simply referring to the fact that humans are not monogamous or that they're very sex driven. There's a lot more
at play here. People are always in search of new adventures. No one wants to eat spaghetti every night, even if it's darn good. And marriages as a
concept are asking for backlash. It's a business deal that leads to misery, a dangling carrot that by the time you actually get a bite it's gone
bad bad bad......
I hate to place fault and boil things down to vague concepts like good and bad. Or maybe it's that everything else is vague and good and bad
aren't, whatever...point is, people care about acquiring information. If something gets in the way of that, people will find ways to circumvent it.
Don't hate the player, hate the game. There's something really unnatural and dangerous with the concept of marriage, so of course people will
subconsciously revolt against it.
I just don't think people are evil, or bad. I don't see them as good and saintly either. Though I think in general they lean in that direction.
But that's not what this is about.