posted on Jul, 9 2013 @ 12:14 AM
reply to post by thesmokingman
That train of thought allowed me to give him a chance in the first place and I'm very happy that I was in the moment. I often stay in the moment as
well because I know he cares about me greatly and I him and so I ignore the future and continue being around him. It all started it was near the
beginning of the Summer off from college and I knew he lived just five minutes away and I was friends with his little sister in high school (he's a
year older than me and was homeschooled) and his father was a regular at the store I work at and so he invited me over to my now boyfriend (his
son's) graduation party from college. So I sort of gritted my teeth and bared it as I always felt awkward going there as I barely knew any of them
and it's funny, my boyfriend would come and talk to me briefly and I'd be thinking in my head "Who does this weirdo think he is? Why's he talking
to me I don't know him. D: "
So about a week and a half later, I get a phone call from him randomly asking if I'm taking any Summer courses at my university as he's taking
physics courses there and wanted someone to carpool with. I said no as I was taking the Summer off (he's in physics courses because he missed them
before and wants to enroll in med school) . So maybe a week or so after that, I added him on spybook (facebook XP ) and we chatted there I was getting
to know him as a potential friend etc and he invited me over to his place again and said that he would like to have lunch with me and he cooked for me
and we played cards. It was interesting, my little brother likes to run a lot as he's in sports in school and it was a scorching day and I was
worried about him because he was talking about talking a nine mile run or so and so we gathered up water and my boyfriend and I jumped in the car to
search for my little brother. Well, after I was done being neurotic and protective, my now boyfriend asked me if I wanted to go on a date with him
that Friday night.
Well, we went to the movies and at the time I was just doing it as an obligation as he asked me and I wasn't really interested but didn't want to be
rude. Well, after that he wanted to hang out more and I figured "well, why not? I have to get out there." and so went with that for a while and
didn't really feel any emotions but then they sparked off. All of his quirks became endearing and cute, he became fascinating, something to be
studied more closely. We figured out we liked a lot of the same things and were quite similar, we bonded more and more closely.
Then, he and I attended a music festival every day for about a week and stayed at his grandmother's during the day. I had a wonderful time meeting
that woman, she's very intelligent and just a dear old grandma. Well, that was about six days where we could walk off together with each other. We
went into the mosh pit and he valliantly grabbed my hand so I would not get swept up in the torrent of people. He took me to this beautiful lookout at
the top of a mountain near the grounds hands linked. We really bonded that week and decided that we were going to stay together and give this thing an
official try and made it "facebook official" .
But yeah, I'm obviously pretty head over heels and still all gooey and lonely at the thought that I might not see him again until Saturday or so
because he's so busy with school right now.