Originally posted by wiser3
reply to post by AQuestion
I think that your child, if he or she were to be gay, would grow up quite a balanced individual considering some of your posts that I have read
I would be more worried if my child were a drug addict if I were you, being gay but growing up with support from your parents only makes you stronger
and ready to deal with prejudice and hatred! I know it helped me, if my parents had turned their back on me at a time when I needed them the most I
probably would have turned to drugs as so many gay people did, not to help them escape from the fact that they were gay but to try and escape from the
hurt others rain down on gay people!
edit on 2/7/13 by wiser3 because: (no reason given)
Thank you. I had two of my kids get on drugs, one prescription and the other meth. I hate meth, I would have rather she be a lesbian, they are all
straight. Atheists may attack me for being a believer, "christians" may attack me for loving my brother; but, I don't change. I am me. I think that
is all God ever asked us to be, he created us with free will to choose what and who we are. I choose to love others, I think he is okay with that. I
know I am, I have seen the other side and cannot do it anymore because I don't want to.
I am sorry you had a hard time for being gay. Heck, everyone has a hard time, that is life. Stick to being whoever you choose to be and I still have
to love you, that is what Jesus told me. Love your neighbor as yourself. I try everyday and gays are not that hard for me to love. My family has many
government sanctioned killers, I was sanctioned too, I chose not to. I never understood it, my family and friends were all government sanctioned
killers and I scared them. I never got it. They knew I would never forgive myself and do it with less regret as I did it.
You know, I have never been attracted to men, not my thing. I was attracted to killing when government sanctioned. Today, I would rather be with
another man than kill someone, and I am still repulsed by the thought of me being with a man, I really like women. I had a woman I dated, who was
straight, tell me how she had kissed another woman at some club to turn men on. I told her I found it disgusting. I don't have a problem with
lesbians and they happen to like me for some reason that is beyond me. I find the idea of the love of my life, a female, loving me overwhelming. I
don't find the idea of two women in bed with me attractive at all.
I dated a young woman, she offered me oral sex on the second date. She was very attractive and responsible. I told her no, I was looking for a
relationship, not sex. I expect the same response from the gays in our congregation, I expect them to love their lovers with all their heart. I expect
them to love their neighbor as themselves. I am an equal opportunity jerk. LOL. I don't know of anyone that God does not love, I only know of people
that do not love their neighbor as themselves and I beg them to love their neighbor. Let everyone hate me.