posted on Jun, 28 2013 @ 05:17 AM
Ouch man. This situation seems to be a bummer no matter which way you slice it. If shes sincere and you cannot trust her, it will suck, and if you
trust her and shes lying through her teeth, it will suck.
On the other hand, that should give you some peace of mind. Sound strange? Yeah, but hear me out. If you make a move and it turns out being the right
choice, then a) you will have performed a miracle because no one is expected to make a good choice when everything sucks about a situation, and b) you
get all the positives that a healthy relationship can bring.
However, if it all goes to hell, then at least you knew it might. Theres no suprise in it. In my expirience, its the shock that really tears at a
person when the crap hits the fan. If you at least recognise the possibility of getting your heart torn out and eaten in front of you, then the impact
is lessened, when compared with what it could be if you had no idea it might happen.