posted on Jun, 20 2013 @ 08:18 PM
I really feel for you. I have a similar problem. Except I'm alone with this problem now.
I have more than just my children trying to get my money. There's a big queue forming. I'm not stupid.
Anyways I am not a lawyer but I'm fairly certain in the case of a car wreck it would be determined who died first. If your hubby went first and you
were his benefactor , then you die second, its your benefactors who inherit from you. It works like that but you should get advice about this for
Its entirely up to you who you leave your money to. Not their business.
If they're asking to see your wills and all that don't let them. Don't give them keys to your home. If you needed assistance firemen can bust in, as
long as you can dial 911. If you call 911 from a landline phone your address shows up, you don't even need to talk.
Don't leave it to the drug addicts it will end up being used for drugs.
Or see if you can make I it that they don't inherit until so many years after your death.
edit on 20-6-2013 by violet because: (no reason given)