posted on Jun, 12 2013 @ 09:09 AM
We all know that attachment is the cause of suffering bla bla bla...
What is attachment?
If you think it as inability to let things go, then i have to agree, you cant manage endings, you will suffer greatly for your loss.
But if you think of attachment as passion and enthusiasm for life events, people, things, relationships etc, then you are getting it wrong, don't be
You can live with passion and enthusiasm for things of life, you can attach as long as you are able to detach when the ending comes.
If you can loose it, then you can have it.
The problem is not being able to loose, not being able to let go.
Some of us will solve the inability to let go, by being always detached, there is no passion, no enthusiasm, they are mere observers, they are not
involved in life, they feel indifference, they lack interest, they don't care, they feel bored and apathetic.... They are not balanced because in
order to cure a problem, they eradicate all life... No life, no problems right?
No my friends, permanent detachment is not my away.
You only need to detach when the ending times comes, when its time to let go...
Until then you can attach at will.
You can attach, if you are able to detach.
This way you wont miss a thing.
So what we need to do is learn to cut the ropes when its time to let go, until then lets live it with passion, enthusiasm and celebration, lets live
unafraid of loss because when the ending comes, we will be able to handle it, we are adults, we can manage it, we might even feel some pain and
suffering but its temporary, no problem, we know its like that, we allow it to happen because we can handle it, we know how to manage changes, we
recover fast, we never really loose control of our lives.
Love u all