Originally posted by Rosinitiate
Originally posted by BO XIAN
reply to post by terriblyvexed
The vindictiveness of some spouses is off the charts . . . usually women more than men, it seems to me.
I can second that with personal experience. It's a lot like they think they are entitled to make your life miserable because things simpy didn't work
out. Hell hath no fury like a women scorned.
The Problem, in THIS, one particular case however as for placing blame on a vindictive woman, or man for that matter, is that....
Parental alienation via the abusive court whores may work when kids are YOUNG, but now, as adults, kids that is, then THEY at least, have the ability
to decide for themselves, and IF it was/is a case of one parent, male or female it works both ways in these types of cases, forbidding the other
parent access to child, etc.,
Eventually that CHILD now ADULT is going to resent one parent exerting that kind of extreme control AND it's a Guaranteed way, for the alienating
parent, make or female, to LOSE that child/children FOREVER....because you can't CONTROL children FOREVER....
Children DO GROW UP and they DO wonder about BOTH parents...let this be a Warning to any male or female who are alienating child/children for reasons
OTHER THAN SEVERE ABUSE. In other words,
If This was a case where a Selfish parent, in this case mother, was Usng the court whore system to "control and abuse the spouse by proxy" and that IS
WHAT this type of Behavior is, then that parent, one day will have to contend with some very Livid children now adults IF they ever find out the
Truth...and when those children now adults DO find out TRUTH, they usually disown the lying parent. Only in cases of extreme brainwashing, which
sadly happens, especially in foster/kidnap type of cases, but Even then,
The child always wonders,
The Damage it causes the child is just unreal. And I Guarantee you,
The Father, IF he was a victim (or vice versa) of a parent lying and demonizing him only to serve selfish aims, etc., will be vindicated...one day.
I will say, by experience, that Narcissists who abuse through courts Children, Usually are Abusive to the children themselves because their motive is
NEVER about protecting children IN THESE TYPES of ABUSE BY PROXY cases, male or female, but about "CONTROL" which includes control over children, even
Into their adulthood lives.
men who abuse by proxy, typically wind up murdering children or ex or both, Narcissists, or they remarry and lose interest as they have new
targets...same goes for many women...Court whores, abuse for Ritualized blood baths and sacrificial Profit, as well as maintaining a State Terrorism
against the masses of slaves they rule over, like the demon minions scum they are....
This is why Court whore narcissists get along so well with little versions of themselves, the parent narcissist. Of course it's the Children who
suffer, BUT once those children are grown and begin to QUESTION their Roots, and they do, IF EVER, one little thing comes out that causes Reasonable
Doubt that their lives have all but been a Lie caused by a selfish parent or murdering System,
Believe me, they WILL NOT FORGIVE that lying parent, don't matter if it's mother or father...they may Tolerate them from a sense of Duty, but
No. And the relationship is forever broken, the SAD part, is when the adult child realizes that they were nothing more than Pawns for the ABUSIVE
And the system that enabled, assisted, and profited from those deceptions. I really hate, and I do mean hate, a so called judicial system that is
"supposed" to represent righteousness, not just law, like many claim well it's law you shouldn't break it, those types would bow to Satan (example) in
a heartbeat if it were a Law to do so, ignoring Natural Law which is Much HIGHER than little peon man, and Always repercussions for obeying such evil,
always...because the damage due to evil unnatural laws like this case is that the damage is far more reaching than just this father, or his son...it
will reach those Sons families and children and grandchildren...effecting whole societies,
And these filth minions and their coward weak supporters Know it. But rest assured, they are storing up WRATH for themselves, and one day, the
scorned, those harmed by narcissists, will rise, and there will be a Winepress...guaranteed. Violate the natural laws of LOVE, expect HELL in
return...And often by the Children, the ones who were lied to....ONLY, in cases where there really IS abuse, would alienation ever be justified,
however, in these cases, the motive is not vindictive, and usually simply being safe, is all concerned parent wants for child, they don't seek high
amounts of money, often no money at all, and they don't seek to demonize other parent Because when parents DO that, the child internalized that,
because they are Part of that parent...that's "key" to discerning, parents who go out of their way to Demonize the other parent (abuse don't need to,
child Already knows) by proxy, etc., does More damage to child as child always thinks...well if my parent is demon, then I am too...That isn't Love
for a child. But Narcissists don't CARE, they really don't...it's ALL about THEM and ONLY THEM, and the Court whore system LOVES these types of EVIL
folk because they literally hand over children to be sacrificed...it IS a form of Witchcraft and Sorcery, for Profit and POWER, kid you not. But,
having been a victim of this...both my brother and me, we learned the Truth about our father, after he died...even after ALL that time, we found
out...my mother, died alone, with two children, who knew, and he at least in much part, was vindicated, her, not so much. But then you see, her
Behavior towards us over all those years, spoke volumes...wouldn't matter What courts said or did...the TRUTH.....ALWAYS, comes out, ALWAYS. Even
before he (our father, whom we hadn't seen or spoke to since I was six) died, both of us, knew deep down inside, that not all we were told meshed,
actions speak louder than words, so let this be a WARNING to Narcissist Parents, you are NOT FOOLING YOUR KIDS...no way, they can see Right through
your lies, and like my mother, you will wind up, dying alone, and your kids...won't care, they just won't. You reap....what you sow.
3-6-2013 by ThreeBears because: Correction/typos