I don't claim to be a medium yet, although I have helped two spirits to cross. The first one was in a hospital, and I really didn't see anything as
far as a shape, just felt a mass of confusion up near the corner of the ceiling where two walls met. I stopped there one day and got really still, and
"spoke" to this feeling mentally.
I told it to go to the light when it got the chance, that they had passed away and it was time for them to cross over. Their families who had passed
on before would be waiting for them (which is a leap of faith, and I sincerely hope I'm right). I stood there a few seconds and I didn't feel that
mass of confusion any more, so I'm assuming he crossed over.
Also assuming it was a he... it felt like a guy. A few days later while visiting my mother in the hospital, I passed a nurse and a new employee in the
same short little hallway where I'd felt this presence. I kind of felt like my feelings were validated when the nurse explained, "And this wall
right here used to be the entrance to the old emergency room." I believe it was someone who had died there and didn't realize they were dead.
The other one was an older lady, maybe in her 80s, or at least that's what I felt. Saw a faint image in my mind as well, but barely made out what she
looked like. No facial features, just a hazy, faint outline. This one felt very childlike, and I believe it was from Alzheimers or dementia.
When I walked toward her the first time, she "popped" to another spot in the room. I changed direction to follow, and she popped over to a closet
that was between two gables of the second floor. The back of the closet was angled to the floor. When I headed toward her that time, she must have
felt trapped and threatened, because the next image was of her kneeling on one knee, with her head down and her armed raised in front as if to guard
That kind of made me sick, because I knew she had probably not been treated very well in life. Whether it was as a child or when she got older and
feeble, I don't know, but I knew she was frightened in that moment. I spoke to her and told her no one would ever hurt her again, that she had passed
away and she could go toward the light whenever she got the chance. I told her she had family over there who were looking for her, and would come to
meet her as she went into the light.
After several minutes of talking, I finally convinced her to go and I couldn't feel a presence any longer. With both of these, I'm certain they had
no idea they had died. I believe this is one of the reasons they may hang around. That place is all they know, and they feel safe there. Most of the
time I don't think they mean to scare people, but I do believe they miss human interaction and may try to communicate with us from time to time by
moving things, making noises, or just showing up unannounced.
I do want to get better at communicating with spirits and ghosts, so I will be able to accurately say I am a psychic medium. Oh, by the way, I believe
there's a difference in ghosts and spirits. I believe ghosts are the ones who are stuck, or don't realize they're dead, and spirits have already
crossed and are free to come and go. I had a light heart attack at 39 from stress, and I felt my hospital room chock full of angels. I also could feel
my deceased father's energy so strong it felt like I could open my eyes and he'd be sitting there.
Hope this helps answer your questions a little bit!