posted on May, 23 2013 @ 10:18 PM
Well, if it had been really really bad, then your father probably would not have put up with it for 11 or 12 years.
On the other hand, if it had been something your father actually liked or enjoyed, doncha think he would have continued doing it???
So, he did put up with it for quite a while, but he probably quit for good reason. So if I were in your place, I would see it a negative situation,
and stay completely away from it, if at all possible. '