What a day it was yesterday. I found out a good friend of mine who I have not seen in a few years was murdered last Thursday in Minneapolis
Spent most of the day cranking loud music and slamming beer just to kind of release some of the mood it put me in. I'm feeling better now, but it
still is kind of weighing on my mind a little.
Here is the news article. Murder
It makes me ill to know someone would do something like that to such a nice guy. If you are doing dating services online, please for the love of the
creator, be careful. You just don't know what you will run into.
I still have to call my cousin and talk to him, as it was his x-boyfriend. They were still talking everyday but I guess they had problems, so had been
apart for a little while, but he is taking it pretty hard from what I understand, and I don't blame him, Perry was an awesome guy. He used to help me
control the drunks during the bar rushes where I used to work.
This post is dedicated to Perry, who I know has a special place in the afterlife
I'll be fine, just kind of down a little. It will pass.
It put things into perspective for me a little. A reminder that life is short, and that we need to cherish our friends, because they could be gone
tomorrow. For years I have been a grief counselor/spiritual adviser for other people, but it is rare that these things come into my life like this. It
caught me by surprise.
He did stop in and say goodbye yesterday morning before I found out though, which kind of tripped me out. I was writing on Sled's paranormal thread
and had a vision, thought it was for her, but then I got the news a little later and well, I guess it was for me. Funny how spirit works that way
sometimes, so I know Perry is OK, more worried about my cousin at this point.
We're going to go buy some fireworks this afternoon when she gets off of work. We both actually have the 4th of July off this year, which is a first
for us in a long time, so we are going to try really hard to enjoy it like it is meant to be,as long as I don't blow my hands off....
If they did, I would of turned gay a long time ago!
I have had a lot of gay friends over the years, in fact, I have been hit on by more men than women in my lifetime, so I am not worried
Thanks for the positive vibes, my cousin is going to really need them. I still have to call him, but am going to wait until after noon, I imagine he
probably put himself out last night so won't be feeling to good this morning. Hell, I even tried to do that, succeeded and was asleep by 10 pm...lol
Didn't wake up hung over though cause it only takes a few to put me out these days.
I'll be fine, am feeling better already myself. Death is something I accept rather fast around me, it is those who are left behind that suffer from
it, not those who go into the great beyond.
I'll miss him, but also know he is doing fine
I hope your day goes great!
Have some super fresh crystal clear water from..errrr.....an Alaskan Glacier!! [_]
I onc had a huge chunk of Alaskan glacier in my freezer when I was living in AK, and it made the BEST ice for drinks of all kinds
I always felt the opposite, could never understand why the guys hit on me, but the women would keep it to themselves. I suppose it all had to do with
aggressiveness. Women don't tend to be very aggressive and neither do I so I suppose that had a lot to do with it.
I am glad you are doing okay. Death is something we all need to learn to accept...it is hard though sometimes. Especially when death takes someone you
are near and dear to.
Anyway..yes some fresh water is needed. I have my beatles glass again...today its revolver..so I figured I would share a song off that
album. I really like this song a whole lot. and it seems perfect right now.
peace and love
~nat the blue eyed cat~
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