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Originally posted by Klassified
Two choices. Move, or get the police and the courts involved. You aren't breaking any ordinances, therefore they have no right to even speak to you if you request they do not. Document everything. Go to an attorney, and ask him/her what you can do legally to stop the harassment. Stop letting these people bully you, and make your life worse than what it already is!
My condolences on the CFS. That's a really nasty illness.
I am a bad neighbor
I am quiet. I love to read, sit on my deck, write. Never have parties, barbecues, noise. No Harleys pulling in. No throbbing music. No light pollution from floodlights in the yard. No dog, no outdoor animals. No beater cars up on blocks. I didn't paint my house a loud color. I don't have signs in the yard, or have a storage bin out front. I don't argue with neighbors, don't bother anyone. Take my garbage out the morning the trucks are coming (so the raccoons don't tear things apart overnight). Kinda keep to myself, am polite. I'm not even home that much. Don't gossip about my neighbors, etc.
Maybe you COULD do a private deck fencing, I saw a cute one made with just a roll of that bamboo fencing.
including weeknight typically at 3 AM while I was working a 60 hour work week.
Originally posted by Deemo Diablo
Exactly the reason I avoid living anywhere populated.
Sell your house, and buy some property with a mobile home in a rural area.
Peace and quiet. No neighbors, no bills. Freedom. Enjoy.
Originally posted by Gazrok
reply to post by abeverage
including weeknight typically at 3 AM while I was working a 60 hour work week.
There are noise ordinances in most communities, especially at certain times of night, and violations of this can easily have the cops out. (and if they have to come out a second time, they get real ticked).
If the words they speak to you cause you consternation, you are the problem.
but being neighborly is more then being a homebody and laying low
Originally posted by Char-Lee
reply to post by soulpowertothendegree
If the words they speak to you cause you consternation, you are the problem.
We should all have the right to relax in our own space without "words" from anyone. If you call that their own fault I guess you have no expectation of a decent life. You come home to your own space and think people have a rite to berate you over the fence?
Originally posted by Char-Lee
Neighborhoods that have no contract for community have no obligation to befriend, join in or anything else you don't feel like doing! You simply have an obligation to let them be and stay out of their property and not be an annoyance by way of law, which is generally keep your pets at home and make no loud noise after 10 pm.
Dang What is with you people wanting to bring food to strangers? i would never eat food from someone if I have not been in their kitchen or know them well. My sister takes food to pot lucks...lol little do they know she has cats on the counter as she cooks and the dogs lick everything even the pans while they are on the table she doesn't care she shares off her plate with all of them!