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Women don't like quiet males. (They prefer alpha males who are all bullies)

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posted on May, 20 2013 @ 05:24 AM
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So, woman prefer imbeciles...?

Well, that makes sense, on two fronts:

1) Woman want security (money) and the dopier the male, the more susceptible they will be to exploitation through the agency of dopamine (i.e., thinking with their dicks)
2) This explains the rise in popularity of MTF transsexuals (i.e, men are wising up to the wiles of women and are looking for alternatives).

Good, logical thread




posted on May, 20 2013 @ 05:37 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
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You've admitted yourself women make the rules of socialisation and I don't think this is right or fair because they have a bias against quiet males who lack confidence and preference for confident, competitive and socially accepted males and all that entails.


Oh yes, there is no doubt in my mind that women make the rules for socialization. I don't let that bother me, however, because I don't feel any particular need to follow those rules. I don't much like society as a whole, and tend to avoid it. If anyone doesn't like the way I live, F-'em. They can just stay the heck away from me, and we'll both be happy. I'm excessively socially awkward, which I'm sure factors into my preference to stay away from society. I'm quiet myself - no need at all to be loud and rowdy just for the heck of it.

I am, however, confident enough to know that I'm not to be trifled with, nor are those whom I call my own. Trifle with them at peril, because a reckoning will be coming just as sure as day follows night. There's no need to be loud and boisterous about that, it's just a fact of life.

There is no need to beat down the weak and timid - they are no danger, and THEY are the ones that need protection the worst.

Those who only PRETEND to be weak and timid, not so much. They are opportunistic predators, just trying to make another opportunity. No different than any other jackal or hyena. Those sorts are targets, not charges to be cared for.

If you insist on blaming society, and insist on playing by their rules, then that's what you have to contend with - their rules. Eschew those, and make your own, and that problem solves itself.



Your not going to change my opinion women have it easier in life and even women who are shy (I don't believe any woman is genuinely social awkward) will still have males vying for their attention and competing for their interest whereas a male who is socially awkward and has no confidence and who cannot cope or function in social situations is condemned by women to be alone and is forgotten about. It is morally wrong on the part of women that they do not notice and approach males who are socially awkward and who do not have the confidence to talk to women but they give no end of attention to the confident and socially accepted smug males.


It's obvious that I'm not going to change your opinion. Your mind is made up already, and you have no desire to be confused by facts. I can't help what you believe about women. You're only shooting yourself in the foot with that false belief, and that isn't my problem. It's yours, but you will continue to refuse to own it, preferring to shift it elsewhere instead. THAT isn't my problem, either. It's only hurting yourself, not me.

It's not your place to determine what is "morally wrong" for others, nor is it any woman's problem to approach you if you won't even stand up to be noticed. How can she approach you if she doesn't even know you're there? We used to call that sort of situation an "ambush". it wasn't a GOOD thing.



Women get to decide which men are socially accepted and which men are evolutionarily successful they in short get to decide which men are happy and which men are not. They shouldn't have this power over men and its about time it was taken away from them.


Baloney. Women (or men, fort that matter) decide NOTHING regarding you or I that we don't allow them to decide. I'm not taking anything back at all - I never conceded the power to them in the first place, so there is nothing there for me to take back.



As for me I'm finally and gratefully becoming less attracted to women after spending my whole life being ignored and ridiculed by them for no other reason than being a quiet, timid and passive male with no confidence while they have fun with their confident alpha male idiots.


Go on telling yourself there is "no other reason", in spite of the glaring evidence otherwise. No skin off MY back.



The only reason I am raising this is because there are other males like me who have been ignored and ridiculed by women for having no confidence, no self esteem and who are socially awkward and these are quiet males who deserve to be noticed and accepted by women.


This is the real world - NO ONE "deserves" notice that they are not willing to call out.



I think more awareness should be made that women are only attracted to confident, competitive and socially accepted (preferably) alpha males so the quiet and socially awkward males like myself who have no chance will be saved the disappointment of being condemned by women to be alone.


The only "condemnation" is what they condemn THEMSELVES to, by failing to act accordingly. No woman has to condemn them to anything at all, nor CAN they.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 05:44 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
I'm 28 years old and I've never been in a relationship with a woman, had a girlfriend or even ever had a friend who was female. I'm a quiet and polite person who lacks confidence and despite being a friendly person I am incapable of socialising with people in groups. It seems that women only notice guys who are socially accepted and confident and that shows how shallow and weak minded they are.


Man... "Confidence" does not mean being the "Alpha". It is knowing your self, understanding others and understanding our differences - freeing yourself up to be your real self.

I went my entire life until the age of 25 before I had any sort of relationship (been 3 years together now). I also thought I was this black sheep, socially awkward and misunderstood. Then I realised that it is actually more about me limiting myself (not other people limiting me). Remember that we are ALL different, to varying degrees - everyone in existence has to deal with people they don't understand or like.

Eventually you have to let it go and just be you (the YOU that you know you are, not the you that you think people expect) and be happy with and in yourself. Drop the expectations that you put on yourself (even though you think it's other people putting expectations on you)... AND drop your expectations of other people - let them be who they are, just as much as you want them to let you be who you are. Always remember that we all have different good and bad qualities, try not to judge every 2 seconds. You aren't the messiah and neither is anyone else.

I did this and literally a week later I found the woman I had been waiting 25 years for.

By the way I hate "socialising" and can't stand being in large groups of people. That is just who I am. I become physically and mentally drained in social situations.

Seriously - it is more about your self and how you are thinking about yourself and others that is the problem. In this sense you aren't actually ready to be with someone. Be really happy with yourself first and just go with it. Stop looking to others for confirmation that you are doing the right thing - nobody knows anything anyway and everyone is on their own ride in a way.

Yes, we have a messed up society - but nothing will change that. It is the big picture, the combined result of all of our perceptions and actions. There are always going to be "black sheep" - imagine an alternate reality where the "Alphas" actually are quiet/timid and the "Omegas" are jock-types (it seems to be pretty much going that way?)

Stop generalising women and stop focussing on the types of women who you KNOW you would never be interested in anyway. Why are you looking to them when you know what you want? Let them be who they are and let them find the men who match their "crappy" personalities. Again that is just a part of accepting that we are all different.

Ps. A radical change of location can give you the space to grow into your self.

There is someone for you. Promise.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 05:44 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
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Women have let quiet, passive and socially awkward males like me down in ignoring and rejecting us and only noticing the confident, competitive and socially accepted males who have it all anyway.


It's not their responsibility to ferret you out of the dark recesses. It's YOUR responsibility to stand and be noticed, if you want to be noticed. Therefore, "THEY" have not let anyone down - you did that to your own self, and can undo it, if you've a mind to. That is entirely up to YOU, just like everything else.



I don't want to hear anymore counter arguments from anyone anymore its all to late.


Exactly so - you don't want to hear it, and therefore will refuse to. Much easier to lay the blame elsewhere, isn't it?



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 05:46 AM
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"I can't get a date, so all women are bad'

If your sex life or love life is bad, blame yourself, not the women. Instead of sitting home, feeling sorry for yourself, go out and look for what you want, it's the only way you're going to find a mate. Sitting at home hoping doesn't work. Do you think your future Mrs is going to knock on your door? You've got to show you have more to offer than just what women see. Maybe if you looked for a woman a bit more mature, that is over the 'bad boy' phase, you'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are. Lumping all women together is like saying all cars are the same. You got Volkswagens and you got Jaguars. Go get yourself a Jag.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 06:18 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
Maybe these females don't realise that if they gave us males with no self esteem some attention instead of falling over themselves for the exciting cocky idiots then maybe we might actually gain some confidence.


If you rely on others to supply YOUR self-confidence, then it isn't really "yours" at all. It belongs to whomever gave it to you, and they can take it away just as easily.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 06:36 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
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Well I didn't mean to be disrespectful and throw your advice back in your face (so sorry if it came across like that) I'm just cynical how it can change anything for me now.



Jesus dude! "How it can change anything for me now"? Seriously?

You're all of 28 years old, still got the bulk of it a. of you. That's a lot of room for change.

I'm in my 50's, on the downhill slide but I just got married LAST YEAR, late in the year at that. A LONG way out from 28.

Stuff changes in life. It's not just possible, it's inevitable. The key there is to shape the change YOU want, rather than letting it shape you.

That, of course, requires action.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 06:53 AM
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Originally posted by Trigger82
So yes woman do like these bad boys but then want us quiet sensitive caring types to comfort them when their bad boys treat them wrong, so please explain to me their what this is about??? please as im lost

It's called being "friendzoned". Women want the big bad boy for procreation and protection, but they want the sensitive wuss around to clean up the mess and a shoulder to cry on when they are treated poorly by Mr. Alpha and his testosterone induced temper.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 06:54 AM
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Originally posted by dulce5cinco
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In my limited experience as a woman, my sexual attraction to a man is the most influential of my decisions to date him. I love sex, but I want someone who can please me physically, and being in a relationship is usually the guy's idea(I don't want to get married, I just want to have fun). I go along for the amazing sex, and try to get to know him. Unfortunately, those men who are attractive to me, are also very attracted to themselves. Most good-looking/sexually exciting males seem to know they are attractive and use it to their full, self-serving advantage. Moral of the story, 'bad boys' are usually thrilling sexual partners, and women are just too naive to realize the reality of the collective condition of male ability to treat women as human beings. Advice to women, stay out of a relationship, have fun with your body, and cherish your friends.


You sound like the sort of girl I have spent my entire life staying as far away from as possible, and turning down on those occasions when I couldn't get away fast enough!



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:05 AM
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Little options??? I hold a doctorate, earn 6 figures, own my own home and business and THEN met my now husband.

We don't live in mid evil times.

Your rant is juvenile. If you lack partners, it's obvious why that is.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:16 AM
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Well your right about what you say but changing your life is easier said then done and even though you say 'other people' can't do it for you they can give you the 'breaks' in life which can allow you to change things. People who have it all always like to claim 'they did it all through hard work, determination etc.' but I don't fully believe this somewhere along the line they got given a break even if they don't admit this. People like me never get the breaks in life that are afforded to others.

And even though there is still time to change I've missed out on the things others less deserving have taken for granted and I don't think this is right.

I'll just go on being the same person I've always been a friendly, overpolite, sometimes selfless and passive person (I thought this would have been enough) . Its true of course that the truly good people (those who are timid and meek) don't get the breaks but the selfish and proud people get it all. Maybe that's the way it has got to be (in this life atleast) and if so I will resign myself to my lot in life.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:20 AM
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So yes woman do like these bad boys but then want us quiet sensitive caring types to comfort them when their bad boys treat them wrong, so please explain to me their what this is about??? please as im lost
It's called being "friendzoned". Women want the big bad boy for procreation and protection, but they want the sensitive wuss around to clean up the mess and a shoulder to cry on when they are treated poorly by Mr. Alpha and his testosterone induced temper.


This is true of course women want the confident, competitive to the point of aggressiveness alpha male for procreation and protection and the socially accepted beta male to provide for them. It's about time women where honest about this and it should be taught to males from the onset so the social dynamics of female attraction are made clear to everyone and so no one is disappointed and all males know where they stand with women.

As for omega males such as myself we don't even figure into this equation and women would prefer we didn't exist
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posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:22 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
I'm 28 years old and I've never been in a relationship with a woman, had a girlfriend or even ever had a friend who was female. I'm a quiet and polite person who lacks confidence and despite being a friendly person I am incapable of socialising with people in groups. It seems that women only notice guys who are socially accepted and confident and that shows how shallow and weak minded they are.

When I was younger I use to naively think that because I was a polite, quiet, timid and passive male I would eventually attract the interest of a woman now I realise how wrong I was and that women are only interested in confident and socially accepted males who know what they want and don't care how many people they walk over to get it. And confidence denotes everything from arrogance, smugness to bullying behaviour in males and the strength women perceive in confident males is just their ability to get what they want by walking over or trampling on as many people as possible and women are instinctively attracted to this because it demonstrates the competitiveness and survival instinct of the male which women search for when looking for a male to procreate with.

Its not right that quiet, polite and socially awkward males like myself are completely ignored or rejected and I have no intention and am not capable of changing who I am and there isn't anything wrong with being quiet, passive, over polite and socially awkward and women should start to notice men like me instead of only acknowledging the confident male idiots who compete for their attention.



Keep with that mentality and you will not go anywhere. I always blamed others for my own actions, that all changed when I became an Alpha Male. I did the work and Self-Improved, where is the arrogance in that? You havent answered any of my posts. You are as Whiney as I used to be when I didn't get a girlfriend.

Instead of self-improving, you are doing what women hate the most, being whiney. A woman, a real woman doesn't want another woman in a relationship. If they did they would go for women entirely and forget about men. You are bashing The Alpha Males without doing your own research about what being alpha actually means.

All you have accomplished with this thread is display your ignorance on a topic you clearly know nothing about. The alpha male is very similar to being spiritual and being spiritual is actually anti bullying. Women prefer the alphas because they are balanced and display leadership qualities along with other traits that makes the Alpha highly attractive. The answer is simple, the alpha are themselves and they aren't afraid of being themselves which means that they are not faking a persona just to attract a woman and show their ugly face deep in a relationship. With the Alphas women get what they actually want.

But clearly I am a bully to you because I am an Alpha Male. Despite the fact that you dont know me at all nor do you know my actions. Good luck getting a GF, nothing arrogant with this statement, im just telling you like it is, you are whiney, and acting like a female and acting like a female will get you rejected plain and simple. Its not the womans fault that they are cautious with what they choose.

The nice guy is not really a nice guy, the nice guys are manipulative and The jerk doesn't care about her needs, so neither the nice guy nor the jerk are the way into a womans heart. You need to be balanced and find yourself first and that is when you become Alpha.

How do I know this? I read many psychology books and seen seminars, observed and personally talked to women, I have many women friends and they taught me alot. You'd be surprised on what you would learn if you listen instead of crying.

But hey, keep blaming others and doing your thing. You will either end up alone, or with a woman who manipulates you to her liking. Seriously, good luck with that



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:30 AM
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Well you may see the alpha as some great leader of men who is spiritually enlightened and protects others and whom women and men alike bow down to but I don't see it in those glowing terms.

The alpha male can only become an alpha male at the expense of other weaker males and all this 'alpha's' are great leaders etc. is very patronizing and really means other weaker males must concede to the will of the stronger more dominant male.

Women want alpha males it doesn't matter if there self appointed 'protectors' and 'strong leaders' or 'forceful arrogant' males who take what they want and don't care who they trample over to get it. Its all the same really
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posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:37 AM
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Well your right about what you say but changing your life is easier said then done and even though you say 'other people' can't do it for you they can give you the 'breaks' in life which can allow you to change things.

People who have it all always like to claim 'they did it all through hard work, determination etc.' but I don't fully believe this somewhere along the line they got given a break even if they don't admit this. People like me never get the breaks in life that are afforded to others.


No, hon, that's not true. Sure, there are some people born with a silver spoon, or better looks, or are more intelligent than others. But that doesn't mean you just sit back and whine about how life is unfair. Life IS unfair. You want something, you have to work for it. No one just gives things away.

Every break I've ever had in life came from ME. I worked hard to be in the position I am now. When I was attacked, I could have let that scar me for life (which it did) and let that be an excuse for withdrawing from the world. But I didn't. Sure, I still have issues; anxiety and PTSD are a hell of thing to deal with on a daily basis. But I live my life DESPITE the unique problems and challenges I face. Its a choice. You have the same choice, too.


And even though there is still time to change I've missed out on the things others less deserving have taken for granted and I don't think this is right. I'll just go on being the same person I've always been a friendly, overpolite, sometimes selfless and passive person (I thought this would have been enough) . Its true of course that the truly good people (those who are timid and meek) don't get the breaks but the selfish and proud people get it all. Maybe that's the way it has got to be (in this life atleast) and if so I will resign myself to my lot in life.


There is always time to change. And how do you know someone is less deserving than you? No one ever truly knows the hardships and challenges others face. Everyone has difficulties in life. Everyone has setbacks, and pain, and problems. Some choose to rise up and overcome these setbacks. Others choose to wallow in self pity.

Have you made your choice?
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posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:44 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
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Well you may see the alpha as some great leader of men who is spiritually enlightened and protects others and whom women and men alike bow down to but I don't see it in those glowing terms.

The alpha male can only become an alpha male at the expense of other weaker males and all this 'alpha's' are great leaders etc. is very patronizing and really means other weaker males must concede to the will of the stronger more dominant male.

Women want alpha males it doesn't matter if there self appointed 'protectors' and 'strong leaders' or 'forceful arrogant' males who take what they want and don't care who they trample over to get it. Its all the same really
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Again you are displaying your own ignorance on a topic you know NOTHING about. Do your research and come back later. The alpha males are not what you claim they are. The alpha does not become Alpha at the expense of others. You are dead wrong with this statement. Alpha do SELF work, and actually spawn through wisdom.

If alpha males were higher in numbers the world would be a better place. Sadly, we are stuck with the manipulative nice guy and the jerks that dont care about nothing but themselves. Your attitude displays something a woman fear the most. And you clearly show signs of being manipulative and being manipulative is dangerous in any womens book.

You are clearly classifying yourself as a nice guy, but guess what, most nice guy becomes violent because they are not confident enough to trust a woman. A woman will not go for the nice guy for one simple reason. Most murders, most cases where women are killed in their own homes actually comes from the so called nice guy. Its a trend you fail to observe nor care to understand about women.

Males become Alpha when they learn to become balanced with themselves. Also, Alpha Males are actually extremely rare in this world. What you are bashing are the jerk, but putting them in the same categories as the alpha males.

They are not the same and never will be.

Again do your research before bashing men who actually did self work not only to help themselves but also to make a woman happy.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:48 AM
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It takes ALOT of self discipline to become an Alpha Male. You may learn something with this video OP, its one of the seminars I took from an Alpha Male who understand women.

To be an Alpha you also have to be able to put yourself in womens shoes. Right now, in this thread ive given you alot of clues to self improve and actually do something with your life.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:51 AM
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Originally posted by fadedface
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Well your right about what you say but changing your life is easier said then done and even though you say 'other people' can't do it for you they can give you the 'breaks' in life which can allow you to change things.


No doubt it's easier said than done, but nothing worth having comes easy. I dunno why that is, but it just is. It's one of those laws, right up there with "anything that can go wrong, will". It's true that other folks can't do it FOR you - they can only support in a peripheral way. Actually doing it is all on you. A daunting task to be sure, but doable if you determine to do so. Think of it in terms of addiction - no addict will ever be cured by others. None of their efforts will ever "stick" until that addict determines to fix HIMSELF. It all starts deep inside the individual. No change is possible until that individual demands change of himself.

Some times, we have to make our own breaks, rather than waiting for someone else to hand them to us. We can get old and bitter waiting on other folks, and counting on them. You honestly can't count on anyone else the same way as you can count on yourself.

Heres an example. That's where I was and what I fought through just last November to get where I am now. If I had waited on someone else to hand me a break, I'd still be sitting in a jail cell waiting for the end of the world. Now, granted I've still got a ways to go, BUT I'm happy with what I have now, and anything else I carve out of life is gravy.



And even though there is still time to change I've missed out on the things others less deserving have taken for granted and I don't think this is right.


That, right there, is as good a place to start as any. Disabuse yourself of that notion of "others, less deserving". There are a few flaws there. NO One is "less deserving" than you. By the same token, NO ONE is MORE deserving than you. We can't go through life measuring ourselves against others and still expect to be OURSELVES. Neither you nor I are any better or any worse than the next guy - we are just US, and that's all we have to measure up to. No particular reason we should have to compare to anyone else, because in all honesty, we are all incomparable. There is no one else, any where, quite like us - if there was, one of us would be entirely unnecessary, redundant. Don't be someone else, be YOU.



I'll just go on being the same person I've always been a friendly, overpolite, sometimes selfless and passive person (I thought this would have been enough) . Its true of course that the truly good people (those who are timid and meek) don't get the breaks but the selfish and proud people get it all. Maybe that's the way it has got to be (in this life atleast) and if so I will resign myself to my lot in life.


Nothing wrong with being friendly, polite, selfless, or even passive. None of those are barriers to finding whatever it is you want out of life - this includes women. What IS a barrier, and an absolute one, is not even trying. Those "selfish and proud" people GET those breaks by one mechanism, and one only - they GO FOR IT. All of the breaks in the world won't do any one any good at all if they don't do their part, and no lack of breaks will stop them if they get all fired determined and go for it in spite of the odds.

Listen to this: I do not have a driver's license. Have not had one for years. Did not need one, did not want one, and would not have one. Now I find myself in a situation where I DO need to drive, so I went to get one. I had to get a learning permit, same as any teenager does. If you ever want to know what ridicule is like, what being the butt of a joke is, try telling your grown child that you need THEM to supervise YOUR driving until you can get your license straight.

You'll never hear the end of it.


Some times, you've just got to swallow your pride and git 'er done.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:52 AM
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Well that's alpha male propaganda equating all nice guys with murderers I must have missed those studies they conducted.

Women should be content with passive 'nice guys' but this goes against their evolutionarily instinct to find strong and competitive protectors. Even if the 'thugs' aren't alpha males as you say (even though I see no difference) women still prefer the excitement and challenge of an 'arrogant bad boy' to a passive, weak, timid and uncompetitive male such as myself which is a condemnation of all women kind.



posted on May, 20 2013 @ 07:54 AM
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Good morning to all here on ATS.
I've been using this site for over a year now, and just today I decided to create an account just so I can respond to this post.

Believe me I see alot of valid points made about this particular topic.
However, I have a few more points to add.

I am recently divorced. (Just following the trend lol)
Anyways, overall to sum up what happened and what changed is this, at the beginning my ex was attracted to me because I was a challenge, she could not control me very easy. But eventually that challenge became an annoyance. Especially when she gave me the altimatum between keeping her and giving up who I am.
Obiviously I made the decision to be who I am.

I discovered most women are control freaks. Either they want that "bad boy" jerk, or they want a male that is submissive. My ex wife mistaken my meek nature for weakness, but clearly she really didn't know me.
Thus she tried everyday to program me to her liking. I compromised because I am capable and rational most the time. But with each day that went by I could see this marraige was a one way street and the direction it was going was of her choosing. So I let her go. I told her what she is looking for is a male that is literally half my size, lacking a pair of nuts and a weak spine. Kind of like her father (R.I.P.)

I think today's society is based solely around the female. We have designed it that way for them. Because it is MEN who built this world, our fathers and grande fathers bleed and broke their backs to make a safer world. Not that it has turned out in that ideal, but that was our ancestors intentions overall.

Now I'll explain what sort of man I was raised to be. I was the victim of bullying like most kids. I come from poverty. I am not materialistic and I really couldn't give a damn about making that almighty buck. I am spiritual and I know I have alot of depth. I see things most people don't see. 90% of the women I have met do not have any idea. They are narrow minded and fairly shallow. I don't have much in common with most of them.

I consider myself a true alpha, and what I mean by true alpha is the kind of male that stands his ground, stands up for whats right and has the strength to endure times of misery. I have the fortitude to say no to those who do wrong. I despise bullies and I make it known to them. I will go out of my way to confront them even though they don't mess with me anymore. (being 235lbs 6'2" of solid muscle helps!)
I have more friends then enemies and all my friends know I have their backs. I treat ladies like ladies and I treat women that are less as is.

So my main message is this, to the fella who created this post, don't ever put yourself down like that. Don't tell yourself you are less. You make yourself into what you want to be friend. Don't concern yourself with what most women are like. Think to yourself, you are a MAN. You already have the advantage over them because you are aware of whats going on. We males tend to forget that it was only a few hundred years ago that if a man wanted to take a women in the worst way we could and there wasn't a damn thing females could do about it, in turn they had a man to protect them from such harm Today we are on a leash and women know this, they are the ones who put the leash on us. Not saying you should go out and rape a lady. But know that all males can be dangerous which is the sort of power women don't have. I take great satisfaction in knowing that I can protect a lady, kill and die for her (so long she is worth my blood), or I can withdraw and she's left without armour. That armour being me.

I hope I made sense and delivered my msg clearly lol!




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