Originally posted by cornucopia
reply to post by tetra50
what the heck?
no hugs from you!?
what you speak of is the past right?
and move away...
you are the creator of your reality in that you can go for a walk, you can move out, etc.etc..
i'm not saying that it's your fault for being hit....
Yeah, I was not in a good place last night, and so in that sense,, apologize to you. But I still argue with your assessment that we make our own
reality, for this just isn't so for some of us. No, some of us can't go for a walkk, for we may be crippled. No, some of us can't move out,
because we have been shunnned and made to loolk as though someone else's crimes are, indeed, ours, instead. This is the state of the place we live
in today. I do not just speak for myself, but many I have watched the very same happen to, in order to guarantee no one willl ever listen to them,
nor believe them.
I was arrested recenlty. I have bloody scabs on my wrists, bled all the way down to the sandals I am still wearing. I also have a black eye. I did
not resist arrest. The policeman looked me directly in the eye and told me I was a piece of # who never should have been born, and that everyone in
the hospital we were at, at that time, would lie on his behalf, because they were "all on his side."
There is a lot to life that some have never experienced. Those of us who do experience that may have made certain sacrifices, though it may not
appear that way, initially. Certainly there are times in abusive relationships where the dynamics take both for it to continue. But this is not
always the case. Some of us live as virtual prisoners......and we DO NOT make that reality for ourselves. It is made for us.....
Just something for you to think about, because there are no easy, glossy, pat answers to everything and everyone's life.
I apologize if I offended you, but I do think you need to see that the answers you give do come down to blaming a victim, at times, who is in that
position through no fault, nor control of their own. This is ATS;We talk a lot here about being slaves, whether it be to a government, a hidden
cabal, whatever. I don't think all of us chose that......