Originally posted by vethumanbeing
Originally posted by sacgamer25
reply to post by vethumanbeing
I am not desperate as you claim. I am perfectly happy in my life. I am in search of nothing, because love has provided me everything that I need.
I cannot understand this "love" thing. I know its an energyform (of very HIGH vibration) I am not perfectly happy as I have too many questions
unanswered. I am in search of EVERYTHING because I dont own the proceedural Manual that explains the purpose of "Being A Human" and ITS relationship
to OUR Creator. Love is for me the blanket taken from me at some point as a child cut into pieces and placed in the trash (because I relied to much
upon its physicality). How can anyone be perfect in this life without validation of some kind, or was that your point?
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If you pursue, I mean truly pursue. Become a servant of others, start by serving your family and friends. Just do more for them, anything, and
everything. If you always at least try to keep your emotions in check, and always apologize for your mistakes. If you really put love first than you
will find love.
At some point in your pursuit you will realize that you are in total control of your emotions. Simply meaning anytime you are not feeling love, it
has been because you listened to the negative emotions and acted on them. Negative emotions build up in a man, and cause him to do all kinds of
If you can learn to feel these emotions before they build up, than you can learn to understand why they came to you, before you act on them. Love is
an emotion that you can choose, God sends the Spirit of Love to the one who chooses to pursue love.
We are taught that love is primarily a shared emotion. What I mean is when we love someone, they love us back, and then we feel love. This is not
true. Jesus taught the truth. Love is only based on what I do; if the emotion is shared it is shared with God alone.
When you understand what Jesus is saying you can open up and start sharing love with everyone. Every time you share love with someone, you feel love.
Love is dependent only on what you do, not how others react. If you do something loving, always allow yourself to experience the joy that comes from
doing good. If the other person reacts favorably than you know they have felt and accepted your love, and more love will come.
You don't have to allow others to take away from the love you shared by their negative reactions. To be disappointed that your love failed to deliver
the loving response you were looking for is fine. But don't let the lack of response diminish the quality of your effort. You did love the other
person, so it is good for you to feel love. Since this is all you really have control of.
If you can allow yourself to always feel the joy of doing loving things for others, without needing their reaction for justification, then you will
always find love when you pursue it. No one will be able to take the Spirit of Love from you, it will become a part of you, and make its home with
you. You will truly become capable of pursing love, even when everyone else is opposed.
Love should be seen as a reward from God for doing kind and loving things. It is ok with God if you are selfish in love. Do as many loving things as
you can think of, simply for the sole purpose of love. Then you will feel love.
You don't even have to initially feel love for the one's you help, you can simply love others for the purpose of love alone. When you learn how to
love solely for the purpose of love, the Joy that comes from doing loving things for others will become an addiction.
The one thing that keeps us from understanding this is a misunderstanding of the cause and effect relationship of love.
We believe if we show someone love (cause), they will love us in return (effect)
We all know this is not always true, and at times can be a flat out lie.
If I show someone love because I believe that is what God wants, God himself loves me in return.
This I can know is always true.
Now I pursue God's perfect love, I always receive love, and not man's imperfect response to my love.
Now I have become the master of my emotions, because I am not waiting for the effect. God's love comes immediately to the one who pursues love. Stop
reacting negatively to others, simply because you believe in love, and God's love will fill you.
The negative reaction itself removes God's love from your heart and you become filled with the disappointment, fear, anger, whatever is against love.
Accept God's love apart from man's love and you will learn how to control those negative reactions. Because it is now God and not man that you are
attempting to please.
If you do loving and kind things to serve the purpose of love, you will be filled with love.
Since I know how to find God's love I am no longer searching. There are only two choices to be guided by the Spirit of Love and find God's love, or
be guided by the world and be separate from God's Love.
Pursue love and you find love. God's Love, It is the Spirit of Love, Christ Jesus that fills me. When I follow Christ's teaching, to love one
another, I find God's Love.
No one can stop me from doing loving things for others, so no one can take love away from me. I can choose to react, and thus join them apart from
love. Or I can choose to stay in love and allow them to be apart from love, simply by controlling my reaction to them. The choice is always yours,
even if it seems impossible at times.
Remember Jesus said we are son's of God, we were born to overcome this life and to find God's love.
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