Mail Order Brides

reply to post by TheBlackHat

i know married men, and they let it slip all the time, how much they really resent their wives, for their past sexual exploits...in fact probably why many marriages fail.

For some reason, this statement really hit me, it is very true. Men will always wonder of the wife's past experience, Men are territorials, always will be.

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Heh, i think it was big bang theory... im not sure but i remember raj saying "my mom said not to marry western women because they will leave you" i love how subtly they say things in media. hahaha

Originally posted by TheBlackHat

Western women should just quit looking for marriage, that's what I mean, it doesn't surprise me one bit your friends mail order bride worked out. For two main reasons. 1. She was dependent on the american husband, due to the green card and because he could show her the ropes of life in america..this is a person who "needs" her husbands help and assistance. 2. Women from poorer countries often still are happy to play the role of a "wife, they see loyalty and commitment as part of their female duties, because it is ingrained in their culture.

Then look at western women..They do not "need" their husbands for anything. If you don't need someone then why marry them??? Oh that's right for the short term, fickle romance and expensive ego driven wedding...Also any loyalty in marriage or commitment went out the window with feminism.

Marriage in the west between westerners is dead. Don't keep flogging a dead horse.

i'm 44 and think i fall into the "Generation X" category and i believe in my heart that it was the last generation that believed in a monogamous marriage situation.

these days "sex" is a game starting as early as junior high school.. it has a lot to do with struggling single parents, parents who both work leaving their children to fend for themselves.. etc.. but that is the mentality, the child growing up alone with no family structure so "alone" is all they know.

we've done this to our children and now it shows in failed relationships that are doomed before they're even started and it's primarily "western women" because no other nation treats their children as we do.

teaching independence is an awesome thing just not at 6 years old. family is a precious thing and everyone goes their separate ways before you realize it.

reply to post by n3mesis


Agreed, This thread replies are actually reenforcing the thoughts i had for a while.

reply to post by luciddream


I have lived with typical western women, they showed no real commitment, couldn't even cook, relied on their looks getting them through life and nothing else. Expected to be treated like ladies or worse princesses but fell about a million miles short in their attitude. Had all been with more guys than i had been with women..although many of them lied about their true numbers, usually cut the figure in half at least...I was a sucker and though this was the way to go, because everyone else goes down this route these days...we are brainwashed to accept western women as they are and put up with their entitlement BS...No, no it isn't the way, its the way to a miserable existence bending over backwards for a woman who gave up her rights to be treated like an innocent virtuous partner.

No, no...for a long time now, when i meet a woman, I do not kiss her 455, I do not buy her drinks, or meals, or anything else, she wanted to be like equal, and she damn well should be treated like one. that means she pays her own way in life. You might be surprised how many women like being treated like this, after the initial shock that you have the b4775 to expect to respect you as a man. Women are so used to western men being typical, "yes men" desperate for sex . i would never marry a western woman though, but Ill have fun with them, well unless they could bring something more than their looks to the table, like about a million dollars, that's all you can expect these days.. temporary fun, with western women..

Just dont get em pregnant.

reply to post by luciddream


This is a cliche. Men are terroritorial and women are not.

Someone said above that when its time to bring in " wifey" robots plenty of men will opt to have them. The truth is some men dont care too much about the details, about the soul, about does she really want to be with me or someone else. They are opportunistic. But again another steriotype as so are some women opportunists.

reply to post by TheBlackHat


Well the fact is now women are sometimes supporting the husband, my grandmother even did, infact both grandmothers did for a while. And I know men who are stay at home dads. So who here is paying for this?
The woman.

So yes things are equal now and perhaps it is better.

I think on the issue of dates, both paying for the meal is reasonable.

I dont know any spoilt princesses. Every woman I know pulls her finger out for the family. Or even when dating makes efforts.

You wont date a Western woman because basically the Western women YOU have met are not what you are looking for. Not because the good ones dont exist...

Marriages do not fail because women have had multiple partners before marriage. It fails because the man is " insecure" and there is nothing a woman can do to repair this.

Originally posted by FreedomEntered
reply to post by luciddream

 

This is a cliche. Men are terroritorial and women are not.

Someone said above that when its time to bring in " wifey" robots plenty of men will opt to have them. The truth is some men dont care too much about the details, about the soul, about does she really want to be with me or someone else. They are opportunistic. But again another steriotype as so are some women opportunists.

Hey, who pushed Adam in to eating that apple. The fact most western women want some over the top wedding, dressed in "white" hahahaha, huge cake. limo etc, etc. This is the current mentality and western men, rather than acting like actual men, the so called men of today enable it, because if they don't, they cant get sex...unless they turn to porn, prostitutes or mail order brides.

If you really think men put up with modern western women because they "love " them do me a favor and pull your head our of your b4ck5ide. if i love someone i treat them with respect and expect respect back, i don't let them walk all over me with disrespect. This is not love we see in our culture, it is men who cannot figure out how to get sex other than by turning themselves into a doormat. Frankly western men deserve all they get and so do their wives who complain about weak husbands....

Originally posted by FreedomEntered
reply to post by TheBlackHat

 

Well the fact is now women are sometimes supporting the husband, my grandmother even did, infact both grandmothers did for a while. And I know men who are stay at home dads. So who here is paying for this?
The woman.

So yes things are equal now and perhaps it is better.

I think on the issue of dates, both paying for the meal is reasonable.

I dont know any spoilt princesses. Every woman I know pulls her finger out for the family. Or even when dating makes efforts.

You wont date a Western woman because basically the Western women YOU have met are not what you are looking for. Not because the good ones dont exist...

Marriages do not fail because women have had multiple partners before marriage. It fails because the man is " insecure" and there is nothing a woman can do to repair this.

edit on 10-5-2013 by FreedomEntered because: (no reason given)

The only women who let a husband slack off are women who have limited choices due to weighing 300lbs...lets be real about it. Looks are so highly prized in our society, and by looks i mean someone who has an average face but good body. Thats all a woman needs to have the world these days...she knows there are thousands of western men ready and willing to ki55 her behind.

reply to post by FreedomEntered


My apologies for the misunderstanding. I was under the impression that the brides married of their own free will. I'll go back to read about how they were being entrapped.