posted on May, 9 2013 @ 02:39 PM
reply to post by FreedomEntered
Haha, you are obviously a woman. I happen to agree with you somewhat, but not totally. Men who marry mail order brides, are usually old geezers, who
do indeed look fools with younger women. And yes there is a huge element of exploitation involved... however it works both ways. The women exploit the
older men for citizenship etc and the older men exploit the younger women for obvious reasons.
However a relationship based on mutual exploitation is the traditional model of marriage. the woman exploited the man for his manual labor and wage
slavery, and the man exploited his wife as a baby making machine and house servant. Feminists moan about traditional marriage being a one way
exploitation of women..but it was a two way exploitation where both men and women got a cr4ppy deal.
The modern western woman wants a man who is equal to her...yet they fail to see, two people who are equal in a relationship cannot make a relationship
last. You have to have yin yang, you have to have different roles. The reason modern western marriages fail, is because feminists want to be men and
have "mr right", some guy who agrees with everything they think etc, an emasculated male who displays zero dominance, only there to serve them and
inflate the feminist ego.
All in all, like it or not, the co dependent marriage was one that worked and lasted..so mail ordering your bride is probably a good idea if you want
a marriage that lasts, especially as women from poor countries usually are still willing to play their traditional role as a wife.
Western women have had their way too long, look at the mess society has become due to feminism. You cannot be married and be a feminist. And that's
fine by me, but too many feminists wanted their cake and eat it, so they married with no intention of playing the role of a wife...look at the damage
that mentality has done to society in general.