posted on May, 9 2013 @ 09:04 AM
Women will act like a woman period.
Some marry for money, some looks, others status, and few of all the above.
Being in the military, I've seen it all. If she's going to be unfaithful, she will be regardless of background or race.
But...a man who willingly marries a mail order lady will be in some deep poo poo if he mistreats her. For a woman to willingly place herself in that
situation has got to be a brave and headstrong woman. They'll already know all the tricks to get out of an abusive or demeaning relationship.
In the USA, if you marry and bring over a alien (legally) they have more rights than the man during a divorce. The judge will usually grant the
divorce, but the terms will be outrageous. If you have a home - she'll get to stay there free of charge while you stay elsewhere (you'll still have to
pay the bills). Same goes for a vehicle. You'll also pay her alimony. You'll get your stuff back once she becomes a citizen.
In an abusive relationship (she can even just lie about it) you'll goto jail. The state will let her stay on your dime for as long as she wants (even
without wanting to become a citizen). You'll likely stay in jail for awhile because she'll say you raped her.
The examples above are worst case scenarios.
edit on 9-5-2013 by ChuckNasty because: didnt proof read