posted on Apr, 27 2013 @ 10:53 PM
reply to post by tracer7
Oh my...I am so sorry. Just the feelings of dread about the possibility, with no complications during pregnancy, which I felt and had to punch down to
let the joy flow during the long wait...then and now, I couldn't even imagine how terrible it would be to lose him. In fact, until finding out my
wife was pregnant, I didn't understand why people wait 12 weeks to announce (being that is when the most danger is.) I thought - oh, if you miscarry
at 4 weeks, so what, you just try again. Boy did my understanding change the moment I knew she was pregnant. At 3 weeks I couldn't even bear the
thought, and figured my mind would splinter and i'd be MPD for life. So to a degree, I understand how terrible it must be for you and your wife - but
it is probably 100x worse than I think.
Again, i'm very sorry for you all, and I may you have the strength and support for yourself - and even moreso, for your wife. Take good care of
As far as the stupid things people say, its because they don't know what to say. I'm sure you understand that, and I can understand why it is
bothering you at this time. Rare is the person with the right words in the face of such tragedy.