Ok sort of a continuation from another post
I will say putting thoughts from my head to paper sometimes gives the wrong impression I found last thread so bare with me
Im a cancer male for those interested
Ok so I have found this Virgo woman online, we clicked very well and finally had the chance to meet her, wasn't a date but just a good chance to meet
each other. Now reading about virgo they are very subtle with how they feel so I want to know if I'm reading these signs well.
Now how I got to meet her was online dating, now I have always ignored messages from gorgeous woman, one day she clicked on my profile and that was it
next day I actually got the courage to send her a message.
"So what's a beautiful woman with the most amazing smile, who looks like she has the world at her fingertips looking at an average guy like myself"
lol yes it was solely her smile that first attracted me.
back when we where first talking online, first she was very happy to talk to a person that didn't hit on her call her pet names like babe etc, never
asked for her contact details, basically I was happy just to talk and listen. as talking got along we talked about finances and how mine is basically
null due to my ex, she offered me advice which kind of shocked me since I never asked. Also I told her if something was to happen between us I'd
personally be bringing up the convo of signing a pre nup. this also really impressed her.
One night she bought up the topic of pics as I only had the one up she wanted 2 more for the next morning when she woke up, me been a bigger guy and
her slim and pretty I was hesitant, she said her past guys had been bigger and that some bigger than me so in the end I agreed and then asked her for
the same she shyly denied, which didn't bother me as I don't like pushing. next night we where talking again and she was very appreciative of the pics
but later that night we had an argument over me selling a pet. (I had an olive python but we moved to a house where her cage didn't fit in the house,
so I left her at my parents after a few months they started getting cranky wanting her gone the partner wanted me to sell her I think solely for the
money. so I gave in and sold her.) and well that was it for the night. She couldn't understand how I could sell a pet, I never got the chance to tell
her that snakes don't attached themselves to people and I don't think i'll ever bring it back up to tell her. Me thinking great Ive blown any future
chance of anything went to bed unhappy.
Next day I was updating my profile and she came on never said anything to me and her profile hadn't changed but about 20 mins later I noticed she to
had added 2 pics of herself ( was this her was of saying sorry without actually saying it?) later that day we where back to normal chatting.
She has bought the topic up a few times and has offered to take me camping in different spots since we both love it in her 4wd since I lost my in my
split. Now im thinking she already has me figured out im a harmless soft guy except protecting someone I love, or she is taking a chance since she
might like me. she offered that before we meet. for all she knew I could be a serial killer.
Also her knowing Im moving to her town she has been happily advising me suburbs to live in so I avoid the bad areas from the floods and unfortunately,
not been racist here but the Aboriginals are bad there and a lot of assaults happen. which has been very helpful to me as I don't know the town that
plus she has now deleted her dating account saying she no longer needed it as I have her email address for now.
She has an amazingly smart mind as well I love, I've been doing automotive spare parts for the past 11 years and she has been the only female
including those I have worked with to school me at it and shes not even in the industry, although I havnt had much do with the 4wd yet been fairly new
FJ cruiser, which is also what she owns. she knew something mechanically I didn't so that really impressed me. But I must say I am intimidated by her
looks as ive never had this sort of female attention before from someone so smart and beautiful.
So are these little things im reading in her way of helping especially when I havnt asked her way of saying she likes me or an over reading?
Also for those that believe in things that happen for a reason, like I do
In a very short time of 2 months this is the order
* Left my ex
* Lost my job to unhappiness (yes leaving still hurt she was my first ever breakup) was told to come back to work at a later date when I was happy
* Decided to leave town as I have always wanted to
* Meet this woman purely by chance due to her goddess like beautiful smile ( yes I love her smile) and always ignored beautiful woman as all I have
ever meet are so far stuck up its not funny
* Found out she left her man in the similar time I left my woman
Now I know she is a person to love deep, she sold her 2 business's of 10 years to spend more time with him, and later he starts been weird accusing
her of cheating, been dis-honest etc. Now how could he do that after she sold her life's dreams proving herself to him and that he meant more than her
dreams. personally I cant understand men myself sometimes...
Knowing how hurt she after this experience and told me it'll be awhile before she is ready to settle again, I know I have the patience to wait for
this amazing woman. Im just hoping I don't come off as the Big brother type to her since i've noticed most women I care about see me as this since
they know how much I can care and can be protective towards them.
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