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Originally posted by Scribe611
reply to post by sled735
Thank you, Sled! I usually end up trying to keep the peace, no matter what. Sometimes that's not the best thing!
Just to update my little soap opera, Friend #1 emailed me today like nothing ever happened, wanting to know where I'm going to be this weekend. She wanted me to help her with a horse the next two weekends, and I had already made plans, and told her this. I got back the reply "Well I guess (horse's name) won't be there since I have nobody to help me."
I told her about my knee, and that I thought I may have a torn meniscus, but she ignored me as usual. I could barely walk for over a month, and even now 6 weeks later I still have to be very careful how I put weight on it. It can have excruciating pain if something doesn't line up just right, and sometimes it tries to bend backwards.
Originally posted by Galadriel
You seem to have set yourself up to be used, dumped on, taken advantage of. You may be getting "something" from these relationships --- repeating a pattern from childhood or earlier relationships. It's a dance, and it takes two. They aren't very nice people it seems in general, but you are there for whatever unresolved issue/reason.