posted on Apr, 18 2013 @ 03:45 PM
reply to post by Char-Lee
I guess you trust your friends and accept them at face value, it is so hard not to keep looking for the lie. You are very lucky!
Most of us are in our 40's or 30's, and each has now been married for a while, kids, the whole bit. One couple is relatively new, but we really hit it
off with them and they live close to us (we even did Disney once), another is only a few years (so still newbies too)...but we did DragonCon with
them. The others, I used to work with most of the guys back in high school...
There is a lot of trust there, certainly, though oddly, a lot of flirting too, believe it or not. We all kind of know each others' buttons, so we just
make sure we don't push them. The gals will even often kiss in public, that kind of thing, simply because it's an easy way to get free drinks.
We have fun together, but don't cross boundaries. We've all tried to be there for each other financially, or helping moves, jobs that needed muscle,
lent out trucks, etc.
Really sucks your husband did you like that...honesty is a big part of how our friendships last. And, we've had a couple fall out of the group, which
is sad. He was one of my long-time best friends, but his wife is just insane, snobby, and very two-faced, and that kind of crap just doesn't jive well
with us. He does steal away every now and then though....
edit on 18-4-2013 by Gazrok because: (no reason given)