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Originally posted by SpearMint
reply to post by KatieVA
How is that a contradiction? Both statements are true. I seem bitter because you're blindly arguing your side without considering the logical aspects, which is annoying. It has everything to do with what I'm saying, if you were paying attention you would know this. I'm saying that they're more likely to be open to a homosexual relationship, think about that for a second, use your logic, that means they're more likely to be gay themselves, it's a tautology.edit on 13-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by SpearMint
reply to post by KatieVA
No, not at all. None of what I said has anything to do with choice, just social factors, which definately can have an effect. This is what you seem to be missing, sexuality isn't set in stone when you're born and can be influenced by different factors.edit on 13-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by SpearMint
reply to post by KatieVA
Well then your stance is widely known and accepted to be wrong. You have just confirmed how little you know about the subject.edit on 13-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by KatieVA
Originally posted by SpearMint
reply to post by KatieVA
Well then your stance is widely known and accepted to be wrong. You have just confirmed how little you know about the subject.edit on 13-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Ditto
Originally posted by SpearMint
Originally posted by KatieVA
Originally posted by SpearMint
reply to post by KatieVA
Well then your stance is widely known and accepted to be wrong. You have just confirmed how little you know about the subject.edit on 13-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Ditto
No, mine is observed and accepted to be true. Minimal research can prove you wrong, try it!
Originally posted by KatieVA
Originally posted by SpearMint
Originally posted by KatieVA
Originally posted by SpearMint
reply to post by KatieVA
Well then your stance is widely known and accepted to be wrong. You have just confirmed how little you know about the subject.edit on 13-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Ditto
No, mine is observed and accepted to be true. Minimal research can prove you wrong, try it!
Again, ditto.
The thing is, Spearmint, when you get involved in a debate you need to understand that there will, unfortunately, be people who don't agree with you or accept your viewpoint. If you can't accept that, you really shouldn't be getting involved. My signature sums things up nicely.
I have nothing more to say, other than much love and peace to you and yours
This is what you seem to be missing, sexuality isn't set in stone when you're born and can be influenced by different factors.
Originally posted by wildtimes
reply to post by SpearMint
This is what you seem to be missing, sexuality isn't set in stone when you're born and can be influenced by different factors.
Uh, yes, it is.
I agree with everything Katie said. You really don't know what you're talking about, and you are wrong. Yes, there are people who, if sexually abused as a kid, become abusers themselves, which means they are DAMAGED, and were damaged by others. But that sort of thing has nothing to do with inherent sexuality. Boymonkey is absolutely right, and I'm very glad he posted this thread. (S/F, boymonkey!)
People are born with sexual preferences. People are also messed up by other people who abuse them. You're talking about mental disorders, and that is an entirely different thing than genetic sexual predisposition. Gha.
Originally posted by SpearMint
Originally posted by wildtimes
reply to post by SpearMint
This is what you seem to be missing, sexuality isn't set in stone when you're born and can be influenced by different factors.
Uh, yes, it is.
I agree with everything Katie said. You really don't know what you're talking about, and you are wrong. Yes, there are people who, if sexually abused as a kid, become abusers themselves, which means they are DAMAGED, and were damaged by others. But that sort of thing has nothing to do with inherent sexuality. Boymonkey is absolutely right, and I'm very glad he posted this thread. (S/F, boymonkey!)
People are born with sexual preferences. People are also messed up by other people who abuse them. You're talking about mental disorders, and that is an entirely different thing than genetic sexual predisposition. Gha.
There are so many resources and experiences from different people that prove you wrong, look in to the subject. Sexuality is not set in stone at any time, YOU do not know what you're talking about. I don't know how you can say that, you obviously don't have a clue. People are not born with sexual preferences, and sexual preferences can change. Take 5 minutes to research it. It's a very ignorant view that you have.edit on 15-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by KatieVA
Originally posted by SpearMint
Originally posted by wildtimes
reply to post by SpearMint
This is what you seem to be missing, sexuality isn't set in stone when you're born and can be influenced by different factors.
Uh, yes, it is.
I agree with everything Katie said. You really don't know what you're talking about, and you are wrong. Yes, there are people who, if sexually abused as a kid, become abusers themselves, which means they are DAMAGED, and were damaged by others. But that sort of thing has nothing to do with inherent sexuality. Boymonkey is absolutely right, and I'm very glad he posted this thread. (S/F, boymonkey!)
People are born with sexual preferences. People are also messed up by other people who abuse them. You're talking about mental disorders, and that is an entirely different thing than genetic sexual predisposition. Gha.
There are so many resources and experiences from different people that prove you wrong, look in to the subject. Sexuality is not set in stone at any time, YOU do not know what you're talking about. I don't know how you can say that, you obviously don't have a clue. People are not born with sexual preferences, and sexual preferences can change. Take 5 minutes to research it. It's a very ignorant view that you have.edit on 15-4-2013 by SpearMint because: (no reason given)
Experiences aren't scientific evidence though, are they? They're just somebody else's perspective. Can you provide us with some of this scientific proof that you keep banging on about? I'm really interested to see it.
Do you think you're able to have a calm, mature discussion about this without the constant jibes that we "don't have a clue", we "don't know what we're talking about" and that we "have a very ignorant view"? It certainly isn't very productive and it's quite rude. Please, try and be pleasant
The American Psychiatric Association (APA) has stated, "some people believe that sexual orientation is innate and fixed; however, sexual orientation develops across a person's lifetime".[1] It also says that "most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation".[1] "[F]or some ["people"] the focus of sexual interest will shift at various points through the life span..."[37] At least one study suggests that self-reported sexual orientation in a community may change over time in response to differing social trends.[38] In a joint statement with other major American medical, psychology, educator, and religious organizations, the APA says that "different people realize at different points in their lives that they are heterosexual, gay, lesbian, or bisexual".[39] A report from the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health states, "For some people, sexual orientation is continuous and fixed throughout their lives. For others, sexual orientation may be fluid and change over time".[40] "There . . . [was, as of 1995,] essentially no research on the longitudinal stability of sexual orientation over the adult life span. . . . [I]t [was] . . . still an unanswered question whether . . . [the] measure [of 'the complex components of sexual orientation as differentiated from other aspects of sexual identity at one point in time'] will predict future behavior or orientation. Certainly, it [was] . . . not a good predictor of past behavior and self-identity, given the developmental process common to most gay men and lesbians (i.e., denial of homosexual interests and heterosexual experimentation prior to the coming-out process)."[41]
"[A number of] lesbian women, and some heterosexual women as well, perceive choice as an important element in their sexual orientations."[42]
Originally posted by luciddream
Unless they are per-disposed to being gay(hormonal factors/genetic make up for brain), it does not matter who they grow up with, they will be whatever they were meant to be.
Kids growing up with gay parents will be more open to the concept of the situation, thus IF they were per-disposed at birth, they will most likely to express it rather than hide it, where as kids of straight parents will hide it.
No matter how much social factors is forced upon someone, it is not going to make someone genuinely be attracted to another sex. They will like whoever they were designed(chemically) to like.edit on 4/15/2013 by luciddream because: (no reason given)
Pay attention to what I say before arguing,
I don't see the point of that rant.