posted on Apr, 7 2013 @ 05:48 PM
Originally posted by digital01anarchy
ok so your saying that these people who have been accused of sexual molestation twice and you don't believe the children? I have a funny feeling had
this been a priest you would be on this like white on rice. Why would they take on 9 children? Look I believe that a gay couple can be just as loving
as parent as a straight couple, but they could be just as messed up too
I am saying that one would have to be very careful and not make hasty judgements.
Remember that there is also testimony from other kids of theirs that claim it is not true, and that these boys were actually sexually molested before
being adopted by this couple.
I have known couples who got all into the idealistic notion that they could heal abused kids, and adopted them. They were both psychotherapists, so
they figured they had the skills and knowledge, as well as enough love for many. Their dreams didn't turn out as they expected- taking on even one
broken child is huge, but more than one is almost stupid.
I did not say it was impossible, I said I would be skeptical. The damage that kids can have from abuses often makes them unable to trust any other
adults, no matter who they are. They also take note of how to work the system, how to manipulate others, and they use it. This is NOT saying "victims
are bad" but that good people do bad things, especially if they are hurting.
It is prudent to keep that in mind in such a case as this.
-and the priest nonsense, I won't bother replying to- you obviously do not know me.