Originally posted by Theflyingweldsman
reply to post by Shadow Herder
A man should NEVER hit a woman.
Equality only goes so far, it can't even out biological differences.
Women have too many hormones, so they are not always responsible for their actions.
A real Man does not hit a Woman. He has the strength to hold her back until she calms down.
Only a coward hits a woman.
Women have too many hormones so they are not always responsible for their actions?? So if the women with hormones happen to kill her children, should
she not be held responsible?
I openly admit, I HAVE hit a few women in my time and I would do it again. My last long term relationship was with a very abusive women. I am a whole
5' 7" tall. She was 6' 1". When she hit me, it hurt. In some ways it was no different than being hit by a man. She even hit harder than some men I
know. So spare me the whole nonsense story of "a man can hold her back, hold her down, subdue her" storyline. In real life it does not always work out
I have told this story before, I will tell it again. When I was in 5th grade I was suspended from school for pushing a girl to the ground. Why did I
do it? Well I was raised by a single mom who always taught me to never, under any circumstances, hit a girl. I never did. While at school, I was
getting beat up daily by a girl. I would come home with a black eye, bloody nose, busted lip. For a while my mom ignored it. Then one day I came home
with tire tracks across the back of my shirt. My Mother sat me down and asked me what was going on that I was coming home all beat up every day. I had
to explain to my Mother that I was held down by a girl and her friends while she rode her bicycle over my back. I had to explain to my Mother that
every back eye, bloody nose and busted lip was a result of being beat up by a girl.
My Mother asked me how I could let this happen? How could I just allow some girls to hold me down while she rode her bike across my back. The only
reply I had was simple. "If I run she chases me and catches me. You told me to never hit a girl so I just take it- but I swear I have never hit her".
I was actually more scared of my Mother than anyone else on the planet. So I never hit a girl because I was more afraid of what my Mother would do to
me if I did.
This was when my Mother. A single mom raising two boys on her own with no help at all gave me the advice that still applies today as it did 30 years
ago. She said, "By hitting you she is placing herself in a Man's position. Put her on her a$$" She was very clear on this point, I don't have to beat
her up. I shouldn't hit her if I can help it, but I should put her on her backside and let her know I am a man and if she continues, I can hurt her.
The next day I went to school like always and like always I was attacked and punched several times in the face. So I grabbed that girl and shoved her
down as hard as I could and she hit the floor like a ton of bricks and began crying. I was suspended for putting my hands on a girl.
Of course at this point my Mom exploded and took me back to school and went nuts on the principle. She wanted to know where they were when I was
coming home all beat up for several weeks. Why is it they can turn their heads and look the other way while I was being beat up, but the second I
defend myself they act? Needless to say, by the time my Mother was done ranting and raving, I was permitted to return to school.
Oddly enough, the story doesn't end here. It turns out the girl had a history of violence. Every time she liked a boy, she beat the crap out of him
and it was something she had done at previous schools. The next boy she liked after me tried to run from her. He ran into the street and was hit by a
car. After that, the girl was sent to a mental institution. Personally I think instead of running into the street to get away, he should have put her
on her a$$ like I did... but I guess by your definition, that makes him a coward.
It also makes me a coward in your view, but I will wear that badge with pride. I will proudly stand up, any place and any where and say, "If you put
your hands on me, I will defend myself. I don't care who you are or what you are. Man, women, billy goat or dog- I will defend myself if attacked and
it is my right to do so."
So using the videos in the OP as an example
video 1: I would have knocked her out cold.
video 2: I would have knocked her out cold.
video 3: I would have knocked her out cold.
video 4: kuddos to the Cop. I would have done it too.
video 5: This one is a fine line. She did hit him first. I wouldn't have hit her myself, but I understand.
The days of the weak "little women" are long gone. If this women is hitting you:
I strongly suggest you're dumb if you dont hit back.
Call me a "coward", what you won't call me is a "victim"
edit on 27-3-2013 by MrWendal because: (no reason given)
27-3-2013 by MrWendal because: (no reason given)