posted on Mar, 25 2013 @ 09:17 AM
It would have been nice had she given you a more direct reason why she wasn't interested in going out with you, especially since you seemed to have
been pretty good friends at work and did discuss personal matters in the past.
She didn't want to hurt your feelings, but if your anything like me, I would much rather someone be direct with me if I have put myself in a
vulnerable enough place to show someone I am interested in them. There are a number of reasons she may not want to date you and it sucks you have to
"quess" what those reasons may be....however you really have no right to pursue asking her any further.
I don't know if this will make you feel any better, but a few years back a very nice, smart, handsome man became quite smitten with me, at the time I
was going through the whole "on again, off again" thing with my BF....even though I was technically single at the time...in my heart I was still in
The thing is in another place and time I would have dated this man in a heartbeat, but I was still in Love with someone else, and that is what I told
him. I have no idea why this woman doesn't want to date you, but don't assume for a minute it's because your not absolutely wounderful, she
obviously enjoyed your friendship....Good Luck...