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Originally posted by FidelityMusic
Hold up, did you just say your child is now a teen, or that you currently have a baby? If you read what I said, I said these days, as in had a baby the last couple of years. That's the experience I've had with the young mothers of this day, currently, not 5 years ago, not 10 years ago, not 15 years ago, I'm talking about the present.
Originally posted by IWant2Believe323
I'm not saying this as any disrespect but I see Mothers who work and Fathers who have no idea how to help out or don't care to learn how to. In this day and age, with the cost of living, it takes two to make ends meet and to share the responsibities. If you ask me women returning to work has just proven how's absent the Fathers still are.
Own up fellas... It's your responsibility too.
You serve your masters well. I will be sure to recommend you for a midwinter bonus. However, your technique is a bit shabby. It's better not to start with an "attack" as it puts people on their guards. That's the last thing we want!
Originally posted by Perhaps
reply to post by ollncasino
The scientific PROOF that sending mothers out to work harms children
... scientific proof - no
... anecdotal evidence - yet however marginal and at its' most, hmmm... maybe/maybe not??.
There are a multitude of variables that occur prior to conception, during gestation, post birth and throughout those critical formative years that contribute to a child's development.
To isolate and put the spotlight on one of those contributing variables tends to disregard many other factors and meanwhile it potentially alienates a particular socio-economic group that may well be parents/caregivers of the highest order.
It will continue to be a contentious issue though, that may never be determined scientifically.
Originally posted by ollncasino
Originally posted by acmpnsfal
The title of this thread is sexist, it should be parents not mothers. Some fathers stay at home with the kids or could stay at home with the kids instead of working. Nice try though.
Nothing sexist about the headline at all.
The article made the point that fathers, grandparents or any other primary care giver who stays at home can provide the mental interaction that children under 3 need.
The article and OP is about children under three's mental development. It isn't about feminism, equality of the sexes or even the parents. It is about children's welfare.
edit on 24-3-2013 by ollncasino because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by FidelityMusic
reply to post by FyreByrd
You obviously misinterpreted my first reply and now feel the need to continue to back your response. 20 years ago and today aren't even comparable. Computers in 1993? They cost $1000+ on the low end, the higher end PC's cost even more. Having a computer in 1993 was like owning a 4K TV today, very few had the money for that. The 1990's was the era of let the kids watch the TV for a while to occupy themselves, rather than you watch TV while the kids run around playing. Smartphones these days, every young adult has one. It's a completely different argument.