posted on Nov, 1 2004 @ 08:46 PM
Don't normally turn to the internet for this kinda thing...but really need another perspective on this. Anyway...heres the issue:
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been cheating. You know...all the usual signs. She's been more distant lately, less
affectionate and a whole lot more picky about pointing out even the smallest thing about me that she finds 'irritating'.
Other stuff like the phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. Or when she answers she will "take it in the bedroom" and then go in and close the
door...when she never did that before.
She has also started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently...although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you
don't know them".
I always offer to come along, but she gets really insistant that she needs "time with the girls", or "you won't like hanging out with all us hens
chattering away about 'girl things' all night"...that sorta thing. Once even offered to drop her off and pick her back up when she was
finished...and she got all cagey about it, looked real guilty and said she'd be sharing a Taxi home with 'the girls'.
Thing is...I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive...although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got
out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? Surely a Taxi would drop her off right outside the house??
Add to this I once picked her cellphone up just to see what time it was and she went beserk...totally lost it and screamed that I should never touch
her phone again and proceeded to rant about "why was I checking up on her." blah blah blah.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth...but...last night she went out again
and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car parked out on the road...which would give me a view of the whole street so
I could see which car she gets out of.
It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed a spot of RUST appearing around my rear wheel arch!!!
So...help me out here...Should I take it into a Body Repair shop or should I just buy some stuff from the local AutoParts store and try to repair it