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Originally posted by mamabeth
reply to post by InTheLight
I agree with you that this member needs to communicate with his wife.
I do understand about venting your frustrations out online with strangers.
You can say things to faceless people online that you might not be able
to in real life.Keeping things bottled up inside takes it's toll over time.
Some people are drama queens' and kings' and the juicier the story,the
more flags and stars,like a one person soap opera!
Originally posted by chrismarco
reply to post by Shdak
That's funny that you mentioned your son asking you why...when I got to that age I use to ask my father the same question...my mother was somewhat relentless at times...I hear where you are coming from and I don't take this as a women bashing thread...
Originally posted by InTheLight
You should be communicating with her and not strangers on a forum. Unless, of course, you are just looking for sympathy from the woman haters.
Originally posted by InTheLight
Originally posted by chrismarco
reply to post by Shdak
That's funny that you mentioned your son asking you why...when I got to that age I use to ask my father the same question...my mother was somewhat relentless at times...I hear where you are coming from and I don't take this as a women bashing thread...
And what did your mother say when you asked her the same question?edit on 22-3-2013 by InTheLight because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by UnifiedSerenity
I wonder what your wife would say if she got to write about you on this forum without knowing your own words here. I won't guess what they are because it's stupid.
Originally posted by Rubic0n
Originally posted by UnifiedSerenity
I wonder what your wife would say if she got to write about you on this forum without knowing your own words here. I won't guess what they are because it's stupid.
Why does she need to know ?
Does the OP need a special hall pass from her to do so ?
The man is in need of some help and doesn't know what to do, he tried to do it with her , didn't work , do you mind? and if so ,why.
Originally posted by UnifiedSerenity
reply to post by Rubic0n
So, you know the facts in this relationship because of his post? You know nothing about their marriage and neither do I. Not all therapists are great, and just because he said he wanted it and she didn't doesn't mean it is true. In my experience, marriage therapists are more likely divorce therapists. Rarely do couples work out their differences, but some do. He has four choices, get a job, work on marriage, leave marriage, stay together and play the what if game never taking responsibility for his own life decisions.
Originally posted by resoe26
Originally posted by Rubic0n
Originally posted by UnifiedSerenity
I wonder what your wife would say if she got to write about you on this forum without knowing your own words here. I won't guess what they are because it's stupid.
Why does she need to know ?
Does the OP need a special hall pass from her to do so ?
The man is in need of some help and doesn't know what to do, he tried to do it with her , didn't work , do you mind? and if so ,why.
The OP seems a bit spineless IMHO.
BOONDOCK SAINTS
Connor: [during job training for an avid feminist] The rule of thumb here is...
Rosengurtie: Wait, rule of thumb? In the early 1900s it was legal for men to beat their wives, as long as they used a stick no wider than their thumb.
Connor: Can't do much damage with that then, can we? Perhaps it should have been a rule of wrist?
Originally posted by Shdak
Thanks for the read... guys/gals, but I already know what I'm into, It fits... but nothing you can do when treatment is refused and I'm not looking to divorce at the moment
Originally posted by Rubic0n
Originally posted by resoe26
Originally posted by Rubic0n
Originally posted by UnifiedSerenity
I wonder what your wife would say if she got to write about you on this forum without knowing your own words here. I won't guess what they are because it's stupid.
Why does she need to know ?
Does the OP need a special hall pass from her to do so ?
The man is in need of some help and doesn't know what to do, he tried to do it with her , didn't work , do you mind? and if so ,why.
The OP seems a bit spineless IMHO.
BOONDOCK SAINTS
Connor: [during job training for an avid feminist] The rule of thumb here is...
Rosengurtie: Wait, rule of thumb? In the early 1900s it was legal for men to beat their wives, as long as they used a stick no wider than their thumb.
Connor: Can't do much damage with that then, can we? Perhaps it should have been a rule of wrist?
that was just weird.