reply to post by smyleegrl
smylee I know which thread you speak of. I started reading it and then quickly moved away as I felt indignation rise. I guess there will always
be individuals who wish to blame others for their own shortcomings and seek others with whom to commiserate. After much thought I came to the
conclusion that the OP of that thread deserves my pity rather than my anger. Apparently he has been hurt very much by women and does not realize that
people can only treat you badly if you allow them to, and that if you continually choose women who treat you badly that the fault lies in your system
The whole thread brought to mind something my dear mother inlaw (may she rest in peace) used to say to her friends when they would complain about
their husbands/boyfriends: "What are you complaining for? YOU picked him!"