Originally posted by ErtaiNaGia
reply to post by 123143
One thing I've noticed about rape cases that really disgusts me. It's always the woman's fault.
Is that why we jail the women who are raped, as opposed to their rapists?
You're trolling. Women are constantly vilified as slutty in some way to have "earned" their rape.
It's sick, and so is your roundabout defense of it.
I think the most important point in the article is that when times are hard, for whatever reason, and men are feeling afraid, they bolster themselves by overpowering others, women, children, weaker (oh-there must be a better phase) men and the planet at large. Men have to teach men how to accept and deal with fear in non-violent ways. Women can't fix this - so many women today, to 'get ahead' are starting to act in this manner as well (I suppose some always have) - it's horredous (as is my spelling)
Your deliberate ignorance makes ME sick.
Originally posted by TDawgRex
reply to post by FyreByrd
I'm from the area, not Steubenville, but close enough. A talk show host ended up doing/taking phone calls for three hours. Many of who blamed the girl.
"She was drunk, she was asking for it."
"She obviously had a reputation."
"This is a racist charge because one of the alleged offenders was black." I know I startled the neighbors screaming the What the F bomb at that one.
edit on 16-3-2013 by TDawgRex because: Apparently I can't spell I'm
The point here is you could care less about how the victim is treated.
A woman should never be raped....
You never mentioned the victim, the topic of my original post, just the perpetrator and me, whom you chose to personally attack.
Wow, look at this, a woman is raped by some football players, and some of the people there even went so far as to defend the actions of the rapists.... these people are [snip]holes!
OH MY GOD! A woman was raped by a group of athletes, and some people there defended the athletes!
ALL MEN ARE EVIL!
Originally posted by solarstorm
I wonder how masculine the football team would feel if a battalion of United States Marines, showed up to beat all their asses and break all their jaws. That's what I wanna know.edit on 16-3-2013 by solarstorm because: (no reason given)
Regarding PIV sex in today’s screwed up world, my opinion is this: if a woman feels like she really wants that kind of sex, she should go for it until she has an orgasm or is satisfied, and then just stop in the middle of the act. Why continue? So the dude can have an orgasm, too? Bah! Why should a woman give a crap about dude orgasms or his satisfaction? When you’re done, you’re done! Sadly, this a) only works for those who are pleased quickly, and b) is probably dangerous because men will happily take it a step further and force women to endure until he’s finished too. So actually… don’t take my advice. I guess there’s still no real, moral way to have consensual PIV sex, other than to just not have it.
Do the commenters and the aunt think it is possible for a female to exercise non-consent in matters of sex, despite existing within a patriarchy, if she is willing and able to harm the male who is attempting to coerce sex? I truly am serious about this question. When I was 16 years old and attending community college, a 42-year-old male student took an interest in me. Apparently this interest was less than platonic, and I did not pick up on those cues. One Friday evening, after the campus had closed down and was mostly uninhabited, he got into an elevator with me. As soon as the doors closed, he pushed me up against the wall and kissed me, without so much as a by-your-leave. I had at the time been training at a local MMA school for several years, and when he startled me, I broke his leg. I left him on the floor of the elevator and went home, and the next time I saw him (from a distance – he did not come anywhere near me after that) his leg was in a walking-cast from foot to hip. He never attempted to speak to me again, and as far as I know, he never reported his actions or my actions to anyone. Would this be an example of a female effectively exercising non-consent? Or is it something else? I’m truly looking for analysis here.
Penis-in-vagina sex is so disgusting. Whenever I date men (which is hardly ever, because no man is incapable of viewing a woman as not a cum dump EVER), I make sure that they don’t stick their dicks in my vag. In fact, I usually just strap on a strapon. That I find, is the only way to subvert patriarchy when having sex with dudes. Pegging the patriarchy I call it.
Researchers took samples of saliva from the 314 pairs of 5 month old twins and measured their levels of testosterone. They then compared the similarity in testosterone levels between identical and fraternal twins to determine the contribution of both the genetic and environmental factors. By comparing the testosterone levels of the five-month old pairs of twins, both identical and non-identical, researchers were able to establish that testosterone levels in infancy are “not inherited genetically but rather determined by environmental factors.”
A long-term study suggests aggressive, defiant, and explosive kindergarten children have experienced tumultuous, negative relationships with their mothers from early on.
Kids getting more violent to parents
ONE in five police call-outs to Perth's northern suburbs for domestic violence now involves kids attacking their parents.
Calls to the 24-hour Parenting WA helpline have soared by nearly 60 per cent in the past three years.
A WA Police spokeswoman said 20 per cent of the domestic violence cases last year in the North West Metropolitan District, which included suburbs such as Joondalup and Hillarys, related to adolescent violence against parents.
Originally posted by SprocketUK
Those mates of mine who grew up with forces families also turned out ok too. Hence my assertion that rape has nothing to do with too much masculinity.