posted on Mar, 9 2013 @ 02:23 PM
Originally posted by Char-Lee
reply to post by Necrobile
The kids are not babies.
How do you know the kids did not play and enjoy the time away from their parents, how do you know how traumatizing it was.
edit on 9-3-2013 by Char-Lee because: (no reason given)
Because I've had a lot of experience in my life with children. I've seen how they act, I know how they can think(though not perfectly). I see how
they handle things that happen to them. My nephew and nieces came from a very terrible mother, and my brother and mom are both raising them. They've
been to MANY classes to help teach them how to help raise children who have experienced terrible things at a very young age. These sorts of events do
have a strong impact on a child's psyche.
Now try for one moment, to imagine that you're 5 years old. You have to truly imagine. Not pretend you're 5, with the mind of an adult. You have to
truly try to regain that young mindset. Now imagine a bunch of people you don't know, policemen and others in suits, they come to your house, and
tell you that they're taking you away. Now imagine looking over at your mother, who loves you very much and wants to protect you. Now imagine
watching her break down, cry, and raise a scene. Doesn't matter how much of a scene, because the thing children will pay attention to the most is
their upset mother.
Now imagine being taken to a doctor. Sure, the doctor is nice, but now he wants to inspect areas that you're not comfortable with. It's cold, your
mom and dad aren't near to protect you, so you're probably scared. Hell, it probably feels like you've been abducted by aliens, and having tests done
Now imagine being away from your parents for a month. Even if the 4 and 5 year olds weren't that effected, there's no doubt in my mind that the 1-2
year old suffered. That's the most influential times in their lives.
If you really cared about the children, you would make sure to put them first. If the judge deemed the photos were bad, and that the children had to
be removed, THEN you remove them. You don't do it first.
edit on 9-3-2013 by Necrobile because: (no reason given)