reply to post by Zarkia
I really do not think it is a secret what people would want, and people in general want what they do not have.
At certain ages and in certain points in there life's especially in females they would want one thing, and at another age and point they would want
or even need yet another, sometimes completely different thing or even completely contradicting. But women and men are not like some mysterious
creatures. Its generally all the bull# you would have to wade through to get to the bottom of it, that is tedious, which for women would be a thing
to do as they seem to like those type of things in fact our whole society is based on it, and in fact its gotten to the point were its ingrained in
everything in our society, and one would not be able to tell a difference between what is real and what is merely a phase unless and off-course the
# hit the fan.
And for men, well the first thought they would come in there head would be "oh man, not this # again" feets don't fail me now, that is if they
thought about it at first in the first place. I am afraid things are pretty much predictable, and not all that complicated as to why people come
together or why they fall apart, no study would be needed really, things are kind of obvious but humanity as a whole has been conditioned to not see
it, because that is part of the over all mystery of the game they play, and lets face it if everybody saw all that lead down the road, well then
nobody would be wanting to get in a relationship. Different perspectives on the subject matter I would take it.
But you know sometimes no matter what it just does not work out, in fact I think this whole relationship thing or dating thing got raised higher
then it should ever have been or ever can be, at the end of the day its like this. Two upright walking talking hairless ape type creatures find each
other...End of Story. People really make more of it then it is, in fact like I said before its there adverse conditions that bind them more so then
there love or whatever they want to call it. Time will tell, but I see some would have no time, but then again some would be wrong. Online dating
would work for some and it would not work for others, in general it would work for women more so then men, but the same can be said of that fact under
any other venue were men and women would get together for the purposes and intentions of dating or such matters. Everybody gets what they wanted, it
just turns out that what they wanted is not really what they wanted, or worse what they wanted is not what they needed...Choices if albeit limited,
but such is life.
Needless to say the good men usually end up getting no replies because of the men that are just out for sex are usually smooth talkers and the good
men tend to be a bit more awkward.
Like the Oracle said to Neo...Life is a learning process, were here to learn why we made the choices we made. The same applies to everything,
including the dating world, and the internet dating world. There is no such thing as good men, and there is no such thing as good women. The only
thing that exists are men and women and the variables there in. Besides I am sure that these so called good men will get over not getting any
responses from some strange lady they once messaged on a dating site, it may take a minute or two or maybe even a day, or possibly even a whole week,
but you know what?...Whatever.
Really I am starting to think that ATS needs to start there own dating site, that way every nutty tin foiler will find there equaly nutty companion,
and we all can have time for much more important discussions and threads...Discussions and Threads such as