posted on Mar, 18 2013 @ 04:47 AM
Well, it's online dating not E-mail order bride...If you're putting all this heavy blah blah blah...no one wants to hear that. If your life story is
on there why bother they already got to know you yeah?
Just write enough to show you're mentally stable; and state you're just interested in meeting people and see what happens ya know? Someone to go have
some fun...not wanna go have a job interview over dinner? Maybe start a profile to just make platonic friends with the opposite sex? Intentionally
stick women in the friend zone...get to know them meet their friends build trust communication...if you're only interested in the bed zone then
there's sites for that too.
In my 20's I had at least 10 platonic friends that were women...it sounds like you just lack confidence in being yourself and have no experience just
hanging out with women...they are not as complicated as everyone makes them out to be. If you are just straight up honest there would be plenty happy
to have a platonic friend. Just don't use that as a ruse to go creeping...despite what many think women are way smarter when it comes to smelling out
some rat of a guy...if they are interested enough for some reason they may let that slide. Whats funny is the whole time the guy runs around thinking
he has an upper hand if he stoops to games.
Once I had female friends and grew from being around them...I didn't need to pretend I didn't need to run a game. I was straight up...I said I have
goals and I am not going to stop or give them up for anything, I don't have time for a relationship...you can be a friend or a lover either way is
fine by me. Not defining what you want or where you are going or want to in life...women have already decided A or B without you even asking; leave
that open too long and you're out of the decision. You're either jumped one drunken night or you're in the friend zone...women have too many options
on the table for a guy to beat around the bush...they could be crushing on a guy oblivious to her hints...but you're the one taking initiative by
stating what you want and where you're headed.
From that either she'll jump for sexual partner from being frustrated by indecisive crush guy, or friends because you're someone that's obviously
honest and decisive about what you want and where you are headed.
Sorry fellas planning to run this as some dumb game...it'll be sniffed out from the word go women are way smarter than you will ever be relationship
wise. Guys that run games are still in middle school...when every woman holds 4 phd's so maybe they will humor you if you're cute enough...but don't
think for a second you're getting anything over on them.
edit on 18-3-2013 by BigBrotherDarkness because: you you're and your got all nuts for
a second...hard to type in the dark