reply to post by greyer
Well, it just so happens that I DO now live in a mountain town, but luckily have no need to chase wimmen any more. These women can HURT you!
I have, over the years lived in lots of places from big cities to the middle of nowhere. College towns were the worst. Lots of eye candy everywhere,
but none suitable for human consumption. They had to be thrown back in until they grew some more, because they mostly just weren't mature enough to
have grown out of the self-centered indulgence of childhood. In my late teens and early twenties, I wouldn't have anything to do with any girls under
about 23, because not all, but the law of averages, dictated that they hadn't matured enough yet. As I got older, the age range increased accordingly.
You have to find women that can keep up with your own development, and damned few girls qualify. The youngest girl I ever had anything to do with was
19, but a very advanced 19. I married her when I was 24. Yeah, she was THAT sharp!
Also due to the law of averages, you have to get out there and mingle, within your target demographic, and be able to handle rejection. In any group
there will be some hits and some misses, The more shots you take, the more hits you get, but at the same time the more rejection you've got to handle.
One guy I know, who ALWAYS had a girl on his arm, said that he had about a 20% success rate, meaning 4 out of every 5 shot him down. he worked on
volume, though, and so always had SOMEONE.
The key is to ignore the shoot-downs, don't take it personally (even if it is - don't dwell on it) blow them off, keep on moving, and never let up.
ETA: never neglect the pretty ones, thinking you may be outclassed - because the fact is, you might NOT be outclassed. You might be surprised to find
out how many decent looking women sit at home because too many decent guys ALSO think THEY are outclassed, and so fear making the effort. Make the
effort. What's the absolute worst that can happen? they shoot you down? Pfft. Move on the the next, and don't slow down.
They may be too smart, or they may just not be suited to running around with their girlfriends in a gaggle for one reason or another - shy, don't find
excitement in keeping the roads hot, don't want to meet or go out with shallow guys... just whatever reason. So they sit at home waiting.... maybe for
you. You'll never know unless you hunt them down and take that shot.
When I hunt deer, I go to the woods. When I hunt woodchucks, I go to the open field. When I go fishing, I go to a lake. My point here is that you
first decide what you want, then go to the environment that is more likely to be saturated with that. When I WAS chasing women, for example, I never
did it in bars. that's not the sort I wanted, and I knew that hunting there was a recipe for heartache and trouble. If you're not really in the market
for a party girl whose going to drain you and toss your used up carcass aside in a week or less (like some kinda vampire), then why go hunting in a
party spot watering hole? Those aren't the gazelles you're hunting for!
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