reply to post by greyer
That sir, was pathetic. It sounded terribly needy. Ain't no guy going to catch a lady worth having by playing that game.
If they want to play "hard to get", that's cool. Walk off and let 'em play it with some other shmuck - don't be that guy. There are more than
seven billion people on this rock ball, slightly more than half or them women. The world is your oyster. Just chasing after women is like a dog
chasing a ball. Burns up a lot of energy, but in the end it's just a frickin' toy.
You can BUY toys.
Put 'em on a pedestal? Hell yeah, if your objective is only to look up their dress. Otherwise, putting them on a pedestal just puts 'em further out
of reach. Why on Earth would you do that if your trying to CATCH them? Testing? Hell, I was done with being tested when I graduated school. This is
the real world - some gal wants to run me through a test, she can score it while I'm heading out the door looking for someone else who doesn't want
to play silly-assed games.
Not too awfully long ago, I walked right out the door on a gal who I'd been waiting to decide she wanted my attention. Well, sir, she seemed to have
made a snap decision when the door was closing, claimed to want all kinds of attention then. Too damned bad. Where the hell was all that desire for
attention in the years before? She was a day late and a dollar short, and I was DONE with that silly little game.
Seriously - your problem may be in the gals you hang out with, and I noticed an inordinate use of the word "girls" in your post. Sure, if your
chasing girls, your riding for a fall. Let's tick off some of the qualities you list in your sampling - ego, just out to have fun, superficial,
worried about how you dress and how you LOOK together, doesn't care about anybody, does not feel sexual attraction, thinks men look disturbing naked,
snarls because you DO have a sex drive, has a need to be put on a pedestal (idolized, I suppose), runs guys through multiple testings (do you hang out
with teacher's aids or something?), hates you, doesn't want to know you, has a judgemental attitude, and contradict themselves. Yup. those are
qualities of girls all right - maybe you ought to take a look at WOMEN instead. Why would you want anything to do with folks that have those qualities
you list anyhow? Just because they're soft and smell nice? Plant some flowers, then!
Stop trying to raise little girls and have a look at some women - less work to catch 'em, higher value once you do.
Hell, I'm a guy. If I have to put a girl on a pedestal, I probably wouldn't even dust her after I did! Any girl who requires the amount of effort
you specify will damn sure not be worth all that effort. You'll only have her until another guy with a higher pedestal comes along, anyhow. Why waste
Ain't NONE of them things lined with gold!