Originally posted by Jefferton
I guess I have morality and wouldn't be interested in some disgusting swingers lifestyle.
Again, I'm not talking about swingers... and "disgusting" is just an opinion - an emotional reaction - not an actual reason.
reply to post by Wide-Eyes
Originally posted by Wide-Eyes
This is exactly why I said 'the right woman'. This may sound weird but I have fantasized in the past about seeing my partner have sex with another guy, as long as I'm there to watch/and or join in . I think there is a difference between lust and love and being able to differentiate the two is something that not many people can get their heads around.
Feel free to flame me for my weird thoughts...
Awesome, and I agree with you completely. For some people lust IS love and that is why they would feel so threatened if their partner has sex with another.
reply to post by pheonix358
Thank you for your open-mindedness, and I agree just because love is being spread doesn't mean that another love is being lessened. Also if your are in love with a person and the other person is just lust, then it should be no threat to the true love.
reply to post by hotel1
Well, maybe I would "play around" if it were safe (protection), and we knew the relationship would not be damage because it would just be LUST whereas we actually have True Love.