Ok…I hadn’t checked into this thread for a few days…it wasn’t an offering for opinion so much as just a funny story…but after laughing at
some of the comments, I felt compelled to close things up and address a couple things.
To quote davesmart…
Sounds like your wife was testing you in her own weird way
maybe shes not but thats the impression i get
BTW i have had a similar situation.
I think she done the dirty on you due to her low esteem from ballooning
And it would make her guilt easier knowing that you banged her friend”
Dave…If my wife did the dirty, oh well. She is my best friend in this life so I’d forgive her and she knows it. I treat my wife as the most
beautiful woman in the world…weight gain or not. She makes me happy and tolerates my ocaasional stupidity. She is…my friend.
To quote Lucid Clouds…
You're a good man.”
Thank you…it was a funny as hell situation and I like to think I was the “good guy”
To quote Prophetboy12
“Jeremy, watch your step. I am married to a women who's daughter is a teacher and my wife for years was on the board of directors. I tell you not.
Out of all of the groups of people and organizations that I know, none are more back stabbing and total B***hes than those in that group.
by the way get ready to be manipulated into volunteering to do back braking work. Been there done it. Take my warning seriously.
You just wait, one of these evenings you will be having dinner and some wine and she will bring up what you said and all Hell will break loose.”
I already work backstage at recitals and such…it’s fun and you’re right…back breaking, thankless work…but it’s fun. Sometimes me and the
other husbands slip out back and have a drink or something. It’s all fun and the ladies love us for our help.
To quote CJCrawley
“I'm not surprised. ”
Why not be honest and open? I don’t think it is shocking to tell the person you love the truth. Bear in mind…there was HUGE sarcasm and my wife
knew that…like this hot, eye-pleasing honey would have reciprocated the idea….there was some massive “assumption” on my part and I think some
of you might have missed that….sarcasm on or off.
To quote David 64
“I really hope your wife stays cool, but I got a feeling you're gonna pay for that remark. And pay and pay and pay......................
Women, especially if they've gained a few pounds over the years, do not like to be reminded there's a hot, young cutie around and YOU NOTICED.
Ladies, please jump in anytime. You know we're all basically brain dead when it comes to hotties.”
This is probably true. I am sure every chance I wil be reminded that I thought “Michelle” had a boom-boom butt.
I guess the point I was trying to make…for what it is worth. Just be honest folks. After 25 years, If I cannot tell my best friend and companion
the truth, what in the hell do we have? My wife knows that I would sack kate Beckinsale in a New York minute given the chance…I think she would
throw it on Keeanu Reeves….does that make us bad people for telling each other our interests AND weaknesses? I think it makes us real and much-much
stronger. Just a thought though...
Thanks for the replies…it was fun to share this.
edit on 3/3/2013 by Jeremiah65 because: (no reason given)