posted on Feb, 27 2013 @ 11:34 PM
Well from a woman's perspective I can tell you that its better if you lay your cards on the table whether you have a chance or not.
Obviously the relationship is not normal since you have feelings for her so your being a dishonest friend by pretending to be something your not.
I would be offended at this if you reveal your feelings at a later date. I'd actually have a ton of respect for you if you told me how you felt, even
though I'm in a relationship, then quietly backed away.
It would make me think and re-evaluate because its not often you find men who are willing to put it out there like that.
Certainly do not do anything to talk bad about her current relationship or put her guy down because it makes you look like a punk.
Tell her how you feel and simply say your only a phone call away. May cost you your friendship with her but if your honest with yourself, can you
really say you have a legitimate friendship the way it is now?
At least you can go on with your life knowing you took your shot and have no regrets and hold your head up high.
Best of luck to you!