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How does sex happen if you aren't in the same bed? It would be weird to just plan a time for sex with someone you love.
Originally posted by MojaveBurning
Lately, I’ve been thinking that it would be nice to have my own bedroom.
I am happily married, and have been for 7 years. My husband and I get along very well, and have no rifts in the marriage or anything like that. He doesn’t snore, or hog the covers. I’m actually the one who snores! I like to sprawl out across the bed.
But I wonder, how good for the marriage would it be for us to move into separate bedrooms? Also, how would it affect our young daughter to see us sleeping in separate rooms? Would he be offended or hurt by this suggestion (would you?)?
I’ve done some research, and most articles I’ve read seem to indicate that separate sleeping arrangements between married couples can actually be a good thing.
What say you, ATS?
Originally posted by grey580
reply to post by MojaveBurning
Get a king sized bed.
That way if you feel like cuddling you can.
But if you need space to spin around in your sleep you still can and not kick your hubby in the face by accident.