reply to post by Darkphoenix77
First, let me say I'm sorry for your loss.
I have to wonder if this was your friend trying to comfort you after her passing. I don't think she meant to scare you. There have been a lot of
people that see loved ones soon after their passing, and it scares them half to death, even though it is still the person they loved in life. It's
just a creepy feeling when they appear, or touch us from the other side.
My second husband was killed in a car crash after we divorced. My story is similar to yours. We remained close friends, and I was considering getting
back in a more serious relationship with him before his accident.
To make a long story short, I cried for months after his death.
One night I was lying in bed crying with my radio on a classical rock station. Suddenly the song that was playing faded out and the most "heavenly"
music started playing. Then a voice came across the radio that said, "Don't cry. I'm at peace... I'm at peace." It was his voice! The heavenly song
faded and the rock song came back on.
I know this was him trying to comfort me. I can't describe the peaceful, tingling feeling that went through my entire body! It was like something
reached inside me and took ALL my burden/heartache away. I could feel it leaving my body. Hard to describe. I never shed another tear for him after
I also believe in reincarnation. Sometimes it can take many of our earth years before a spirit returns to the flesh. Other times, they come back
I think they can communicate with the living until they return, or go to a higher dimension, or where ever their next soul lesson takes them.
I really feel like your own fears of the unknown scared you, and kept you from realizing this was her trying to comfort you. But, that's just my
opinion. It could have been a bad spirit taking advantage of your weak emotional state, as you said, but if you had never had any negative spiritual
encounters prior to this, or since then, I doubt it.
Things get better with time, but we will always hold our loved ones close at heart. She will always be with you in spirit, and in your heart.
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