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orangetom1999
jheated5
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Jheated5,
Wow!! You caught me by surprise there with this post and reply. I most certainly did not expect this nor from you but instead flack from Miss Sky.
I've run into a number of very controlling women in my lifetime. I am glad to have learned from this.
I highly recommend reading Warren Farrells books or videos. I have both here but the videos are readily accessable to those with computers. Very good stuff to teach a young man to survive the mine field of relationships.
Best you learn while you are still young for many do not.
Also..as I gave this advice to another person just now...once you learn and it sinks in to your soul..you will go around armed and not ignorant. Teach other young men how to survive this mine field...for so many are floundering in ignorance out here and these women are running over them in their ignorance.
Glad to hear you have seen it for what it is. Remember and keep up the learning. For the learning never stops.
Thanks for getting back to me on this,
I was quite surprised,
Orangetom
Yes I'm definitely going to have to check that out online, as soon as I call it quits and said I want no more to do with them, guess who wants me back??? You guessed it right! lol... I have a feeling it's going to be a never ending cycle, so after I'm done listening to the Warren Farrell video, hopefully I'll be able to break the cycle and keep on learning like you said.... Never hurts to gain more knowledge!
In case you do not understand this of which I am explaining ...DR Warren Farrell has a definition of this behavior ...
Making ones dreams , beliefs, expectations, come true cheaply and without RISK.
This means someone else gets used up to reduce your RISKS.
What Dr Farrell gives is his definition of Pornography. Obscenity. Another word for it is Objectification of a partner.
Obscenity or Pornography..
Making ones dreams , beliefs, expectations, come true cheaply and without RISK and Without Rejection.