we were together a year and a half. it was a long distance relationship but things were great. we would spend every weekend with each other, go out and enjoy each others company. during the week we would text all throughout the day and every night we would either skype or have long phone conversations. we were serious and planning on moving into together and getting married.

well things got very stagnant. everytime we would see each other he was either too sick or too tired or just didnt feel like doing anything. so for months on end every visit was in bed the WHOLE time while he either slept or we would rent movies.

the texts went down to maybe 3 a day...the phone calls maybe twice a week for only 15 minutes because he was too tired or too sick or i never got a phone call cause he fell asleep, we talked about it numerous times and each time he said he would change.

well monday night he pulled the same thing....he called, i did ALL the talking while he sat there and breathed and then said he had to go. so i brought it to his attention AGAIN, for a long distance relationship to work there has to be alot of communication in between the times of seeing each other. well he swore up and down things would change and begged for another chance. so the next day i was happy hoping to see things change. well i barely got any texts, i called him once during the day, and again I did all the talking and then he said he had to go. later on that night, no phone call as he promised.

so i ended it for good this time. ive had enough of the excuses. no one is that sick or tired that they cant pick up the phone to call the woman they love so much.

its a shame too...just the other day I bought him one of those big valentine cards cause we were going to celebrate this coming weekend.....oh well. I never had luck with men amyway, but i should get the attention and respect i deserve, i wont settle. so i guess its back to bieng single.

That's a real shame, sorry to hear that

However...if he's not treating you like a princess, he's not worth the time.

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You had the balls to end this relationship... Props to you!

Maintaining a long distance relationship is hard. I did it for 2 years because I had to move to make decent money for the family. Not easy at all. That said, CC might be right and he was waiting for you to break up. There are a couple of other things that might be the problem though. Could be depression. That's nasty but treatable. The other might be drugs. Not saying it is but it might be a possibility.

If he really is that sick and that tired all the time then you are better off without him, you don`t want to spend the rest of your life with someone who is so unhealthy that they can`t hardly even get out of bed.
If he was just lieing then your better off without someone who is going to lie to you all the time.

Long distance relationships are doomed from the start most of the time. It takes real chemistry to make a long distance relationship work. It was probably great in the beginning because the excitement was there to fuel the passionate fire between the two of you, but as that excitement dissipates unless there is real chemistry involved usually the relationship starts to dissipate too.

Originally posted by miss_sky

......for a long distance relationship to work there has to be alot of communication in between the times of seeing each other.

Long distance relationships will work only when that long distance is temporary.
As more time passes, the bond will just gradually continue to weaken.

Gotta agree if you didn't end it you'd have had a text (SMS) before long.
For sure wouldn't have the balls to call you or God forgive tell you to your face

Your best off without him,
Just be careful about that rebound it can be a nip>

Hope it works out for and you find your soul mate

Cody

Originally posted by cody599
Just be careful about that rebound it can be a nip>

Especially around here. The ATS boys see a newly single lady... RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!!!!