well that would require evaluating whether the church (church is not a building, according to jesus anyway. he says you are church, as in your body is god's temple. think about that one for a second). was capable of saving you from sex. there's a niggly little thing there called free will. so if you are the church, and you didn't save yourself from sex, don't beat yourself up about it, just get back up, and try again if thats your will. yes, it is being blown out of proportion. his will is his will. it ain't your will or my will. nobody can make those choices for him except him. didn't anybody ever teach you that?