reply to post by k1k1to
"i would think most women would interpret the extra attention received from men as a good thing, as being desirable and wanted. i understand that at
times it might feel a bit disturbing and uncomfortable but whats wrong with being desired? as long as they dont cross the line and physically act out
on their desires...."
Have you ever been piled on with multiple people projecting invasive energies at you? My sense is you aren't an empath, or a woman; if so, what I
describe would be familiar territory for you.
"people take sex and sexuality too serious...especially with that remark you made about the bible...about even THINKING about sexually being with a
woman is considered rape?...really? LOL."
Have you ever been raped? Sorry for taking these matters so seriously .....NOT. Do you want your daughter when she comes of age to have to put up
with loads of sexually inappropriate energy coming at her all the time? I think you're in for a bit of a shock if you end up with a daughter and you
start watching the way men act around her; like most dads, you're likely to go ballistic because you WILL sense what's really going on even if they
don't lay a hand on her. And I'm not talking about your daughter simply (and appropriately) expressing her sexual energy with an ongoing boyfriend;
I'm talking about the 'piling on" phenomenon that attractive young women deal with out in social settings where they are NOT seeking attention.
Right now I've been working with a very sensitive psychic woman, another empath, who has the misfortune of living next to some creepy neighbors.
These guys energetically project the most awful, deeply pornographic, verging on violent energies/images/and feelings at her and her sister, and they
are both aware of it; it took me telling her that she's a psychic empath to help her understand that she IS picking up on the very real energy data
that these guys are projecting at her and her sister.
If more women were taught to trust these impressions we'd have far less rape in this country, and in the world.
This has nothing to do with the give and take of natural flirtation, mutual wooing, and adult sexual behavior. This is the invasive, nasty quality of
energy I'm talking about; and most men mix a little of the GOOD kind of sexual projection with a whole lot of the invasive, disrespectful, nasty
kind. Two different things.
"you dont know how many women i have encountered in my life who have told me that the first thing they do when they see a man is imagine how "good"
he would be in bed...and im pretty sure that at least ONCE in your existence you have "eye raped" or fantasied about a man OR woman...whatever your
orientation might be."
Women can project invasive sexual energy, too. But people who are real adults don't "eye rape" anybody; my goodness, what the hell is that? If I
see a cute guy I don't instantly imagine his various body parts and pleasure myself mentally thinking what it would be like to f**uck him. What kind
of person does that? You're taking a PERSON, a human being, and turning them into a THING. Instead, when I was single I'd have that moment of
normal fascination where you're going, "Gosh, he's cute," Or "He has the sexiest eyes," but really, if he has the personality of a slug, the
morals of an alleycat, or other "deal breaking" traits, the attractiveness stops immediately. And most women are smart enough to take ALL that into
account instead of just viewing men as walking penises. Really, they have vibrators for that!
"why do we have to be so politically correct? and such hypocrites? why do we have to suppress one of the most ruling and biggest instincts of any
living organism...TO REPRODUCE.."
Nobody mentioned suppression. You did. Normal wooing, flirtation, mutual respect and fun flirtation between men and women is the most normal thing in
"men are visually stimulated creatures...women are visual as well but mostly emotional..."
Again, it's one thing to notice that you feel attracted to someone, body parts or whatever. It's ANOTHER THING to sit there basically masturbating
as you project VERY invasive, "F**ck me now" energies. And telepaths and empaths like me pick up on your actual language, your actual energy, and
we're going to call you out on it. Usually we don't speak up.
"there is nothing wrong with being comfortable with your body and being desired... unfortunately some women like you, take it to the heart and become
bitter pouting miserable NUNS... remember you wont stay beautiful and attractive for ever...enjoy it while it lasts, god gave it to you for a reason,
dont put it to waste
edit on 5-2-2013 by k1k1to because: (no reason given)"
You know nothing about me, but thanks for playing!
My guy and I have been together 14 years. No "nun stuff" here!