posted on Feb, 2 2013 @ 10:54 AM
This is really sad. And, IMO, very wrong. Unfortunately, if you're going to have a contract, you have to go through legal means of making it
'stick'. It's a lesson some of us have to learn the hard way. Writing up a "contract" means nothing unless the law/state is involved.
We loaned a "friend" a LOT of money under a contract we penned. Since he was a "friend", we didn't feel getting the law involved was necessary.
Well, that was 6-7 years ago and the guy never paid us a penny. He took the money with the scam in mind... We took it to court, but it got so involved
and would be so expensive that we just marked it up as a learning experience. I'm still angry about it, but we did learn.
Men have to be CAREFUL these days. Going through a qualified sperm doner is the way to go. If you want to help your friends have a baby, take them to
the sperm bank and do it that way.