Originally posted by hotpinkurinalmint
I have older relatives that were masons and I chose not to join.
I was a member of a college fraternity and found that secret handshake clubs can get a little old and tedious very quick. Perhaps a part of
Masonry's decline has to do with the fact that more men are going to college and joining college fraternities. These men, like me, get a little
burned out on secret handshake clubs. They participated in rituals, conducted rituals, and saw them for the silly hocus pocus they really are.
I'm sorry you're so quick to lump all fraternities into the same pot and perhaps that speed-to-judgement explains much. If you actually feel that
the focus of Freemasonry is the same as college fraternities, I can hardly disabuse you of your opinion.
However, as has been pointed out through the thread the decline hit its nadir some years ago and while for some lodges the change won't come soon
enough to save them from going dark many lodges (especially urban ones) are having trouble just keeping ahead of the number of new applications. In
fact, in my lodge we've started recommending applicants who don't have a particular connection with our lodge to another lodge in the same temple
that hasn't enjoyed the same prosperity.
As for "the silly hocus pocus", I have to ask whether your opinion on that extends to organised religion? Insofar as Freemasonry is an adjunct to
one's religion it would seem that you should.
Fitz