posted on May, 20 2013 @ 12:41 AM
I honestly wish I could hear it explained from her POV. But given that she is not here...
It seems to me you have come to the logical conclusion that this relationship can only get worse and that it's coming to a dead end. It sounds as if
you have already made up your mind and no longer wish to continue the relationship.
If you're going to break up, make sure you do it face to face. Sending a break up text is, in my opinion, one of the most cowardly ways to end a
relationship. Yes, she will probably yell. Say some nasty, awful things. Throw a tantrum, etc. I don't have a good reason to back up the face-to-face
deal, other than it just feels better later down the road.
From my experience, the snapping at you, etc. might possibly come from your tone of voice. I know I have done that before to my fiance a few times in
the past during that time of month. If he says something to me that comes out in a condescending tone, I might snap at him. It was probably
unintentional because afterwards he acts confused. I try to keep these things in check, but sometimes it happens so fast that I don't even realize
what has happened until it has already happened. Usually I feel pretty crappy about it afterwards. (I'm making progress with controlling it.)
Anyways. Any advice you come across the net take sparingly. These people are not in your shoes. They don't know your gf. Follow your gut feeling if
you can. And think this carefully through. Chances are, she doesn't even realize how bad her behavior has become and the ONLY way for her to change
is if she acknowledges it comes to terms with it. Otherwise, her behavior will continue and will progressively become worse. If you want this
relationship to work, it's paramount that you make her see what is going on and make your feelings known about it.