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Your kid could be gay and you dont really know for sure.

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posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 01:03 AM
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With all this talk about gay PE teachers and gay related parental concern in general, Maybe parents need to think about the fact that their own kid may be gay. Also that their kid will have gay classmates, fellow karate students, swim teammates, wrestling opponents and gay friends in general. Some you will never even consider, like your own child. Chances are pretty high that someone reading this has a child and it is gay. Whether its the girls softball coach or teammate , the band director, or the church,there will be gays . In my opinion, if a child is heterosexual, there can be no "changing" them , even if a gay "experience" were to occur at an early age. I had things happen as a young kid, where the other boy initiated a gay act. He is married with kids now and super ashamed when he sees me. I think its funny. It had no effect on my sexuality, neither did any other gay person or gay friend that Ive ever known. If any gay haters reading this do end up having a gay kid, PLEASE overlook it ,it isnt their choice what they are, the only choice is to act,or not, on a sexual urge. And acting or not acting on it, doesnt make any difference in orientation.




posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 01:30 AM
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I just hope my kids will enjoy their sex-life every way they like (with an appropriate age, of course). Be they gay or not, I don't particulary care.

If someone tried something in his/her youth, a little bit of experimenting, that is fine by me. Usually their sexual orientation will work out just fine, as long as the society as a whole doesn't try to be unfunny with it.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 01:38 AM
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I'm a father of two.
If they turn out gay,so what.
The only thing I hope for is that they are productive and successful in life.
And that they can wipe my butt when I can not when I get old,not that I would subject them to that.
People,gay or not we are all people in the same boat.
Get over it.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 01:39 AM
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I don't care. If my Son turns out to be gay then that isn't my business.

And I would love him and approve of him regardless of his sexual orientation.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:01 AM
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I am not bound by religious beliefs nor do I subscribe to popular beliefs.
I go with what nature intended ,to nurture your child and hope that they can survive out in the world.
To carry on.
This gay thing and all the rest,it's just all a big waste of energy.
There are more important things to deal with like wars and people killing people.
People with out food and shelter.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:01 AM
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Well if people want to be gay, FINE!!!!

EVERYONE USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:03 AM
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My kids dont appear to ever think about or mention sex. Thankfully.

Also I homeschool so I dont have to put my kids in that situation.

Problem averted.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:15 AM
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Originally posted by muzzleflash
My kids dont appear to ever think about or mention sex. Thankfully.

Also I homeschool so I dont have to put my kids in that situation.

Problem averted.


Dude,they do.
Just like you and I did.
It happens,it's part of becoming an adult.
Not the gay thing,but sexuality in general.

I was off topic,sorry.
It would be wrong,IMO to have a male gay gym teacher in the locker room with male boys.
Much like a woman gym teacher in the locker room with male students.
Or a female gay gym teacher in the locker room with the ladies.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:21 AM
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what about a sexual hetero predator preying on teenage girls? hetero issue...not gay but same kind of thing.

sexual predators are everywhere...



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:26 AM
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Originally posted by Thurisaz
reply to post by kdog1982
 


what about a sexual hetero predator preying on teenage girls? hetero issue...not gay but same kind of thing.

sexual predators are everywhere...



That's totally different.That's a criminal act and morally wrong.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:28 AM
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yeah it is WRONG but it was happening when I went to high school .... they were hetero. (spose I should put this in the other thread about Gay PE Teachers)

anyway, I like your contribution



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:34 AM
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Originally posted by Thurisaz
reply to post by kdog1982
 


yeah it is WRONG but it was happening when I went to high school .... they were hetero. (spose I should put this in the other thread about Gay PE Teachers)

anyway, I like your contribution






Yes,if that was happening,it was wrong and should have been reported.

Thank you,btw,I'm just offering my opinion ,nothing more.

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posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 02:38 AM
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What?

I didnt think about sex at age 5.

Thats EXACTLY why they wont be going to the brainwash building.

It would corrupt them instantly when in reality age 10-12 is the natural phase where this stuff develops.

Thats also why I dont buy into any of this stuff, its basic common sense.

I am afraid you have been hoodwinked.
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posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 03:36 AM
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So what, you will love them anyway. People are people after all!

Im not saying i wouldn't be a little disappointed all the same.

But the love of a child is unconditional!



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 06:17 AM
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Well if one of mine turn's out gay at least I can teach them the words to Around the old camp fire.. and all the actions to This is it before they hit the scene....

No child of mine is going out looking like a complete noob.



posted on Jan, 22 2013 @ 08:55 AM
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Im no homophobe, I have gay friends and I enjoyed Priscilla Queen of the Desert.

I know its not politically correct to say but I would hate to have a gay son, I wouldnt love him any less, I would support his choices but lets be honest, it wouldnt be easy being gay, the stigma, the way people think, discrimination etc etc

Dont care who they shag I just dont want them to have unnecessary issues or problems in life



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